by Mojo » Wed Sep 12, 2007 10:50 am
Where is the profile located. Also, what is the name and heading? As for me, I don’t usually contact HB's. I wait till they contact me. Though this information may be useful to others on this board. On a side note, I was just thinking about 10 minutes ago how most girls profiles state they do not want a "player" or into “games”. Interesting, since they do not realize that they would not be attracted by one who does not know how to play the game. To be a game player is not bad, it is recognizing the rules of female/male interaction and knowing how and what to say. It is being the man of her dreams. We all have to play the game. If you go into an interview, you have to play by the rules. You can’t sit back and throw your feet on the desk. By not playing the game you do not get the job. There was a study done on what men and women really want. In a speed-dating event, they surveyed what the person wanted in a mate. After the speed date event, they surveyed what they actually found attracted in the people they hit it off with. To the surprise of the participants, they found they actually liked things they had no idea about while many of the attributes they listed as desirable were not that important. So most people do NOT know what they are really attracted to. Those of you who are in the game are way ahead of most. You know what attracts. You know the path to get attraction.
Cheerio,
Mojo
P.S. The interesting thing about the survey is that they re-interviewed the participants a few months later to ask what they found desirable in a mate. You’d think they would learn and list the attributes they discovered they were actually attracted to. They reverted to what they believed they were attracted to before the survey was done.