Got the number, now what?

[realdice]

I've gotten about 5 phone numbers in the past week but nothing seems to escalate from that. I read Jugglers advice on the phone but I'm not getting call backs or they're "too busy".

[Blue]

Try using simple Textscalation techniques.

How long do you wait before texting? I find it best to text straight away to capture the moment.

Something simple like.

Hey cute, so random meeting just now, are you always so friendly to strangers?

This works on a number of levels.

Cutie puts them into the right frame.

Random meeting just now helps the moment sound quite serendipitous, and finally the

are you always so friendly to strangers, is a qualification hoop which they should jump through if only to live up to the statement of being friendly. Once they reply the first time you should be able to trigger a run.

Hope this helps.

-Blue

[zine]

lead more during the initial meet. Have mini venue changes. Have more comfort they could all be having buyers remorse, and be more specific on each situation for me to give you more in depth advice.

[Twitchy]

If they are not returning your calls, your sticking point is the initial meeting, not your phone game.

Think about it...would a girl return a call from Brad Pitt? Yup.

You probably need to amp up the attraction before or after getting the number the same day/night you met her. If she is attracted to you, she will more than likely answer the phone when you call. If she is not attracted to you enough, it will fade as soon as you leave her presence and no phone "tricks" will get her to return your call.

Remember, the average hot girl gets approached at least 10 times a day - more when she is out at the bars. You need to generate attraction, stand out, and be different than all of the others guys who hit on her and asked for her number.

All that being said, sometimes she won't return your phone call no matter what you do. It happens, don't let it get you down.

[realdice]

Good stuff, funny enough I texted two girls today and setup dates with each one . One of my dates is on Thursday, and I'm afraid she's gonna lose interest and flake. Should I text her some material during the week to keep her going?

Edit: I've texted all the girls who I've gotten phone numbers from. I find it lets me think before I talk and I can setup better.

[Twitchy]

Yes, don't let the attention fade.

It doesn't have to be much material, just hit her with some funny comments at least once between now and then. If nothing else, just give her a "hey, how is your day?" at least once.

[PUA1234]

If you want a few days prior to the date you can send a txt saying that " are we still on for ____day?" And when she responds you should respond back and confirm the time/meeting place... But other than something along the lines of that you shouldn't really contact the girl until after the initial meeting...