silly question ?

[eros]

i read everywhere about to be a jerk to attract , but how you keep that spark , that balance between good guy and jerk when you try a relationship , to don`t go in extrem . . for example if you do in her favor she will get bored and leave, if you go to strong and be bossy you end up being an ass....
any ideas are wellcome , but give me some examples so i know what are u talking about.

[Finesse]

One way is to make them on your terms. You dont have to be a jerk 100% of the time,.... because then you will be well... a jerk. But you would probably benefit more from like a 80% jerk, 20% nice guy ratio. In a relationship when you do nice things they have to be done on your terms. Not hers.

Alot of people I know think that "Shut Up" is a bad thing to say. I love it. Because one of the things I hate is when they start complaining about my lack of calling them, etc... I will straight just tell her to shut up, and then I move on to something I would rather talk about. The only thing is eventually you have to get back to what she was wanting to talk about. I hate relationships. Too much maintainence.

Show me a girl who isnt high maintenence, and I'll smack you and point you in the direction of the morgue.

[Archaeopteryx]

Show me a girl who isnt high maintenence, and I'll smack you and point you in the direction of the morgue.

Or as I call it, F-close city. Woo hoo!

[Finesse]

Or as I call it, F-close city. Woo hoo!

ewww slimy..... ewww cold...... ewww a man.

[John Apollo]

wow....