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Direct or Indirect Opener?

PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 5:50 pm
by Skinnybutt
Hey guys
This is my first post and had a question from you professionals. Im a recovering AFC but have alot of women make direct eye contact with me at the bars and i always make them break first. my question is what is the best aproach. if they have eyes for me should i imediately walk straight up to them or come back by and open the group? Love you guys forum by the way. you do a great service to us guys trying to up our game. :P

PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 6:15 pm
by Twitchy
Both direct and indirect can work, depending on how you execute. I personally like direct but indirect is better for the hotter women, especially if your inner game is not strong.

If you are going direct, I would not recommend directly complimenting her on anything to do with her looks.

If a girl catches my eye and holds it or gives me a big smile, I normally will just reach out my hand and introduce myself.

Other times I have used my index finger in a "come hither" motion to get her to come over to me. This works well believe it or not.

If you want to break the ice, say something along the lines of "you know, you can come up and say hi to me instead of staring at me all night"

Direct or Indirect?

PostPosted: Thu Aug 30, 2007 6:44 pm
by Skinnybutt
Thanks twitchy, i like it. My inner game has always been strong, but it was always the what the hell do i say. Im going to try the finger tonight. :wink: