Dallas PUA

Social Proof, Social Circles.

Its the way we were designed to meet partners. It is literally the most natural way to attract someone.

First let me tell you guys I am far from a natural. At school I was voted least likely to ever get a girlfriend, everything I have learnt from either my background in Psychology or through the Game.

My style has moved to pretty much concentrate on social proof. It's my prefered method, and one I love abusing.

Why do I abuse social proof to get laid?

Because it's easier and more enjoyable than running a whole bunch of game.

With social intelligence everything is in place for you, all you have to do is reap the rewards. As long as you know what to look for, and how to take them.

I've just come in from a night out, I've uploaded a few pics from the night, I also recieved a text from a girl whom I've never slept with and only kissed once about 3 weeks ago, asking if I was up for "some random fun"

Check out the pics, and decide what you would you rather do.

Below is a picture from the advert of the latest pick up method bootcamp, See how cool the instructor looks, standing stylishly against the wall, being unreactive, and erm... waiting for the right momment to approach, see how he looks like he's having erm.. fun? Check out that body language? How cool and suave right? Guaranteed to get you any woman you desire! Honest! or your money back.




Now look at the pics below, far from unreactive and alpha, but wait...


...Is that her underwear?



...Is that actually a top salsa dancer in disguise as AFC AdamLondon?



...Is that the latest design in air guitar?



...are those girls actually having fun?




Now while I know it is important to study the methods, and learn hot to generate attraction etc. However, nothing, and I mean nothing will boost your game more than having a social life.

Learn the skill, by all means. Don't do it word for word though, listen absorb, then forget about it. You can learn all the theory you need in about 5 hours. Use whatever method you want. Then go out there and build a social life. You get a group of 30 female friends go out with them and a wing and then try telling me you can't get laid. 30 women that you will see all of them at least twice a month. You don't have to see them all together, but if you do that the relationships, and ultimately sex will follow.

I've learnt alot about women. Most of it I have learnt by spending almost every single minute of every day with them. I now spend a significant portion of my time around women rather than men. They are quite possibly the most amazing creatures on this earth. The more you understand just how similar we are, the better.


AFC AdamLondon

I agree. I'm just starting to build a social circle like you recommend. I figure if I befriend enough attractive women while still acting like a man, good things will happen.

If you've got tips for building the best social circle possible, I'm all ears.

So far, I recommend just doing what you enjoy and making friends w/ whatever girls are there. That way you meet people w/ common interests and being genuine isn't an act. Also, don't focus on 'gaming' all the time. Internalize the stuff and just let things flow. It's worked ok for me so far.

Heya Omni!

Cheers for the reply I wrote this up once here's a cut and paste from the post.


SARGE THE PLANET!!!!!

1) Network, Network, Network. The more people you know the larger your group standing. Ask people what they do for a living, ask for their business card/ contact details as "you never know when you might come in handy" This is a really simple business close I have used on countless occasions; Including Head of Intel UK, Head of Communications, Oscar Clark 3G phone network, Elizabeth Murdoch (Ruperts daughter), Martin Dodd, Head of A+R Sony. As you can see these are all real people who have massive value and yet were more than happy to hand over a business card, with their mobile number on, all for potential business and networking.

2) Organise a night out, invite all your friends, tell them to bring friends. Friends have friends who have friends etc... Organising a night out once every 3-4 months will really help you become more social and get used to leading the group dynamic, excellent for inner game esspecially for the night you organise.

3) Join a club, a sports club, a movie club, a dinner club, a sex club. Whatever you fancy. Meet people there, and invite them to your nights out. Again you are consistently building social proof, and increasing the number of people in your group dynamic.

4) Don't try and f-close every girl you meet. Make friends, try and be picky as your group increases you will probabaly find a whole bunch of girls are into you naturally. Hold off from the ones you don't want and wait for the girl you do like, game her. if she turns up on a night you organised you will be in the perfect Alpha position to do some serious damage.

5) Put people in contact with each other. This is a key part. Helping people has a big impact on social networks, don't let others ponce off you, but putting people in contact with each other will help you stay the centre of all the interactions, and continue to build your social proof.

A major key in my game is building social bridges. The more people I know the smaller my world gets. I am now regularly bumping into people who know other people I know, and they all revolve around the same few names.

I hope this helps.

AFC AdamLondon

Sounds like solid advice to me! Thanks Mr. London[/b]

You're more than welcome buddy!

AFC AdamLondon

Just what I was looking for. Some solid advice on building up a social network. Have been having trouble with that as of late.

Glad to be of help,

There's different types of social networks to build up but essentially the easiest way is to not go for the kill each time, thatway you get access to the girls networks, then you can choose the hottest out of all of her friends.

AFC AdamLondon

I'm a newbie here, and maybe I should be reading more than posting but I have always found it difficult to social proof. I don't have that much of a problem getting laid or meeting a girl one on one but going over to a set and social proofing has never come easy for me. Mainly because I need a good opener. I have the balls to approach a SHB set but without a good opener I blow the 3-second rule and lose it.

I guess I need to network girls instead of trying to f-close on every one I see....

~Rico

I know this is great advice but how do I do this working like 60 hours a week? I usually go out once in the middle of the week and 1 or 2 times on the weekend. All my friends are like "PUA-types."