Dallas PUA

Greetings.

In this post you will learn how to isolate someone that you're talking to.

Let's begin.

Isolation has long been recognized as an important tool in the toolbox. Isolation allows the person that you're talking to do things that they wouldn't normally do. Whether it be subject matters that she wouldn't normally discuss, or physical escalation she wouldn't normally allow, isolation allows her to do things she wouldn't normally feel comfortable doing in front of her friends.

There are a few easy isolation techniques.

1. Take your girl to get a drink at the bar.
Simply say to her: "Let's get a drink" then lead her by the hand to the bar. Her friends will ask where she's going and you allow her to tell them that you're getting a drink. This technique allows you to get her completely out of sight from her friends.

2. Back to Back
Simply turn the girl that you're talking to so that she cannot make eye contact with her friend but you can see what's going on behind her. In that way she won't get the judgmental looks from her friend, and you can see what her friend is doing behind her.

3. Dance Floor
Simply say to her: "Let's go dance" then lead her by the hand to the dance floor. This is very similar to going to the bar except that you have to buy a drink AND you have an excuse to escalate more quickly and aggressively.

With any of these techniques in mind, its always easier to isolate to somewhere within eye-sight of her friends. If you don't quite have the compliance to take her completely out of eye-sight, you can always go to a location where her friends can see her.

Try these out and let me know your results!

Two more ways.

(1) Self-isolation.

Girls don't have a ton of tools in the isolation tool-box. But one is self-isolation. Watch for a girl who gets up to go the bar or the bathroom but who tells her friends she's cool to go by herself. That's a sign you should also make a lane excuse to leave, then look to connect away from the group.

(2) "I'll be right back."

Make an excuse to leave. Leave. Then come back with an excuse for her to leave with you for "2 minutes." This should be something like "I just want to see what you think about something." Once you have her isolated, ask what her plans are. Be candid that you wanted to pull her aside just to ask that.

Note: these two approaches are inferior to triumvirate's, but they're there when you need them.