Second trip to Uptown, more random thoughts..
Posted: Mon Feb 18, 2013 1:31 amBig Thanks to the guy on here who came down and hung out a bit Friday. I won't mention name. Thanks to Beeg and Triumvirate for answering some texts about the scene. Saturday night about 11pm my phone's screen went out so I didn't have a way to communicate.
I will pass on some new info from a natural's stand point who's been in the game a few years. If someone finds it helpful it's worth my time to type.
The area is great for meeting wings. There's a ton of single dudes looking for wings every where. I opened with simple stuff about different clubs, or certain women in the area. Within an hour I could of had 5 different wings from different bars.
I think Standard Pour is a great place but it's about 85 degrees in there. I met a pair of hotties together standing outside the door and was about to do a change of venue until my buddy I brought down walked up and started talking and they went back in. He funded the trip so I wasn't too concerned and for the most part we were split up. All the women I have met at Standard Pour have been hot and totally friendly as well as the guys (friendly)
It's very easy to meet women on the side walk. The "do you know where such and such bar is" is always a solid opener even if you already know. You can start to gauge their interest in how they respond. If they want to stick around and talk, but they don't know where the bar is, you will know b/c they will try to keep the convo going. If they don't want to talk it will be a quick " I don't know", or "that way".
I don't like Renfields. I went in to Zaza about 11:30 Friday and it was slow and I only seen 1 hottie out of about 10 women there near the bar, and opened one on the bench by the check in.
The Den is pretty cool but more ethnically mixed. If you like the same night lay Mexican women are a lot more prone to do that and you can find them there. Asian women are much more shy. The music was great. I approached a 2 set with some guy with them at the bar close to the restroom and they immediately asked if I wanted the shot he had bought one of them. After I drank it they said it had a roofie in it. For whatever reason, when I came back to piss twice, he was standing there and like a coward he ran off when he seen me coming.
The door guys where ever I went are real friendly.
Saturday I was talked in to going to Lizard Lounge about 1:30. Why, I don't know b/c I heard bad reviews from girls all weekend but my friend was paying the $20 cover and wanted to go b/c it looked cool online. I told him I was going to find us a ride back home and after asking 5 different groups, I couldn't get a ride. I didn't like the place at all. Half of the uptown girls acted like they would take me any where.
I went to Avenu Friday about 12:30. Pretty cool place but hard to talk b/c of the noise.
Day game is great there. I probably talked to about 10 girls saturday from 11am until 5. Maybe 4 or 5 just walked away and ignored me. The others were friendly. I was sitting at the bench on katy trail that leads down to Maple and met a hottie coming out of Ice House bar. She was a little tipsy but we hit it off great and she took me home and we made out a couple minutes. At first she seemed a little disappointed she was leaving Ice House alone. You can meet a lot more locals on Day game. A high percentage of bar hoppers are tourists.
I've had great success now in that trail area either on Fairmount close to the trail or the trail on Saturdays around 5pm. That's 3 women in 30 minutes I could have gone out with within about a 200 feet radius. Saturday I sun burned my face walking and that night had opened a few girls asking if my face looked red. Nice opener I never tried but it can lead to cool convo, but I'm not going to intentionally sunburn my face.
Overall, I think in the bars/clubs, I probably met about 20 girls Friday and Saturday and the vast majority were very sweet. I don't remember any negative convo which is rare. Maybe a couple walk offs. Day game I must of talked to 10 and half were nice and willing to talk. The others walked off without talking. When you're standing on a side walk by the mall and 2 girls walk by and you say "You lady's gonna do a little shoppin today"? and they look at you and keep walking and don't say anything, that's their problem, not yours.
I have a bunch of Robert Graham sport shirts that have the flip up designer sleeves. You can check on ebay if you don't know what I mean. I didn't see any guys with those shirts and I'm thinking it would be a decent investment for you to get 1 or 2 or whatever your price range is. A cool one may be $200 but it's a good investment for winters in Uptown it seems to me. Get it tailored too.
Be cautious of women approaching you. Every time I've been approached there, it's never been someone I would have approached first, meaning; I'm not interested. If you aren't interested in approaching a girl but you find yourself liking her after she approaches you, then you are on a path of having to "settle" and you don't need to lower expectations and settle. They do.
That area is over run with women looking for "long term relationship" much more so than one night stands or same day lays. I got the impression it's reasonably easy to Isolate a quality female and even get one in your house reasonably quick, but generally the quality ones there are going to be patient on giving it up unless they think they found the perfect guy for them long term, and same night lay is natural to bud the relationship. The issue for a hot 25ish year old woman is that there are a ton of them, but not enough attractive, cool (to them), wealthy men like they desire, to go around leaving a supply and demand issue. A lot of them it takes a while to realize that but over time they see they have to lower their expectations and "settle". If they realize they have to settle, chances are they are going to be more patient and you are going to have to make them think you want long term relationship. If they want a lot of money they're probably settling for someone they aren't physically attracted too, and/or twice their age. Certainly there are exceptions to each rule and Dallas is big enough there's booty call girls, and no bit of theory or advice is 100%. So it appears to me, you don't have to be rich, and you don't have to be overwhelmingly handsome to get a hot girl there but you need to at least have a "cool" factor about you. All guys have a cool factor it's just a matter of displaying it and having confidence.
I will pass on some new info from a natural's stand point who's been in the game a few years. If someone finds it helpful it's worth my time to type.
The area is great for meeting wings. There's a ton of single dudes looking for wings every where. I opened with simple stuff about different clubs, or certain women in the area. Within an hour I could of had 5 different wings from different bars.
I think Standard Pour is a great place but it's about 85 degrees in there. I met a pair of hotties together standing outside the door and was about to do a change of venue until my buddy I brought down walked up and started talking and they went back in. He funded the trip so I wasn't too concerned and for the most part we were split up. All the women I have met at Standard Pour have been hot and totally friendly as well as the guys (friendly)
It's very easy to meet women on the side walk. The "do you know where such and such bar is" is always a solid opener even if you already know. You can start to gauge their interest in how they respond. If they want to stick around and talk, but they don't know where the bar is, you will know b/c they will try to keep the convo going. If they don't want to talk it will be a quick " I don't know", or "that way".
I don't like Renfields. I went in to Zaza about 11:30 Friday and it was slow and I only seen 1 hottie out of about 10 women there near the bar, and opened one on the bench by the check in.
The Den is pretty cool but more ethnically mixed. If you like the same night lay Mexican women are a lot more prone to do that and you can find them there. Asian women are much more shy. The music was great. I approached a 2 set with some guy with them at the bar close to the restroom and they immediately asked if I wanted the shot he had bought one of them. After I drank it they said it had a roofie in it. For whatever reason, when I came back to piss twice, he was standing there and like a coward he ran off when he seen me coming.
The door guys where ever I went are real friendly.
Saturday I was talked in to going to Lizard Lounge about 1:30. Why, I don't know b/c I heard bad reviews from girls all weekend but my friend was paying the $20 cover and wanted to go b/c it looked cool online. I told him I was going to find us a ride back home and after asking 5 different groups, I couldn't get a ride. I didn't like the place at all. Half of the uptown girls acted like they would take me any where.
I went to Avenu Friday about 12:30. Pretty cool place but hard to talk b/c of the noise.
Day game is great there. I probably talked to about 10 girls saturday from 11am until 5. Maybe 4 or 5 just walked away and ignored me. The others were friendly. I was sitting at the bench on katy trail that leads down to Maple and met a hottie coming out of Ice House bar. She was a little tipsy but we hit it off great and she took me home and we made out a couple minutes. At first she seemed a little disappointed she was leaving Ice House alone. You can meet a lot more locals on Day game. A high percentage of bar hoppers are tourists.
I've had great success now in that trail area either on Fairmount close to the trail or the trail on Saturdays around 5pm. That's 3 women in 30 minutes I could have gone out with within about a 200 feet radius. Saturday I sun burned my face walking and that night had opened a few girls asking if my face looked red. Nice opener I never tried but it can lead to cool convo, but I'm not going to intentionally sunburn my face.
Overall, I think in the bars/clubs, I probably met about 20 girls Friday and Saturday and the vast majority were very sweet. I don't remember any negative convo which is rare. Maybe a couple walk offs. Day game I must of talked to 10 and half were nice and willing to talk. The others walked off without talking. When you're standing on a side walk by the mall and 2 girls walk by and you say "You lady's gonna do a little shoppin today"? and they look at you and keep walking and don't say anything, that's their problem, not yours.
I have a bunch of Robert Graham sport shirts that have the flip up designer sleeves. You can check on ebay if you don't know what I mean. I didn't see any guys with those shirts and I'm thinking it would be a decent investment for you to get 1 or 2 or whatever your price range is. A cool one may be $200 but it's a good investment for winters in Uptown it seems to me. Get it tailored too.
Be cautious of women approaching you. Every time I've been approached there, it's never been someone I would have approached first, meaning; I'm not interested. If you aren't interested in approaching a girl but you find yourself liking her after she approaches you, then you are on a path of having to "settle" and you don't need to lower expectations and settle. They do.
That area is over run with women looking for "long term relationship" much more so than one night stands or same day lays. I got the impression it's reasonably easy to Isolate a quality female and even get one in your house reasonably quick, but generally the quality ones there are going to be patient on giving it up unless they think they found the perfect guy for them long term, and same night lay is natural to bud the relationship. The issue for a hot 25ish year old woman is that there are a ton of them, but not enough attractive, cool (to them), wealthy men like they desire, to go around leaving a supply and demand issue. A lot of them it takes a while to realize that but over time they see they have to lower their expectations and "settle". If they realize they have to settle, chances are they are going to be more patient and you are going to have to make them think you want long term relationship. If they want a lot of money they're probably settling for someone they aren't physically attracted too, and/or twice their age. Certainly there are exceptions to each rule and Dallas is big enough there's booty call girls, and no bit of theory or advice is 100%. So it appears to me, you don't have to be rich, and you don't have to be overwhelmingly handsome to get a hot girl there but you need to at least have a "cool" factor about you. All guys have a cool factor it's just a matter of displaying it and having confidence.