Gager wrote:I think my next step, is fuseing the two worlds of PUA and my life. When I game I go out on my own and usually fail, then I go back to my life and keep my friends and family out of it. But I think it's time I allow game to guide my life and relationships. Time to become an Alpha, Time to become a leader, time to start qualifying others to meet my standards, and time to stop chasing. I'm 21 years old, I've got all the time in the world, i don't need to be chasing after all these girls thinking they might be different from the last girl that flacked.
Here's what I did. I more or less isolated myself from my friends for a while, and well I'm in a different state than my family. A lot of times, your relationships can be what holds you back. Like, when I first got into trying to do approaches, my friends would give me shit whenever I did it. It was so fucking stupid, and it got to me for some reason. (Probably because I already knew I was bad at it, and didn't need any negative reinforcement).
The good news is that now, I can go back to hanging out with whoever and I don't give a shit about what they think, and I'm not held back by that negative influence anymore.
About this chick who just flaked you, 100 approaches from now you won't give a shit about it. A couple hundred approaches from now, you will hardly remember it and it may even be a funny memory ("haha, whoops I forgot to check for her number! that was silly of me"). Just don't worry about it too much and keep approaching.
My personal advice in terms of a bootcamp would be to do 1000 approaches, and THEN see if you still need/want a bootcamp.