ninjamatt wrote:you never really know why they dipped out. Maybe they were uncomfortable with the deal and realized it's not for them. Maybe they didn't like your particular style.
I don't think it has anything to do with my style. Basically I'll talk the first, oh I don't know, 10-15 minutes with the guy, and he'll be eagerly talking about stuff from the forum or whatever he's read. Flexing the mental muscle if you must. Then at whatever point I decide it's time to get down to brass tacks and start approaching, the excuses come flying. So I say okay whatever, then go into a few sets myself, and he'll pretty much just be standing there listening and occasionally piping in with some non sequitur type shit. So apparently it's cool for him to come into a set I've already opened, but he won't start one himself. I won't even get on the guy about not approaching, because I've pretty much determined he's not going to do it.
Here's some examples/quotes of what I've dealt with (if you know who you are, too bad):
"I usually take a while to get warmed up to the place, and then I start approaching" = stood around the majority of the night, and only took part in sets I opened. Didn't intro himself in, was basically present. Decided home was a better option than going to a place with hotter chicks. Never seen again.
"I've been reading a bunch of material all this time so I just need to go out more" = opened one set which I'm pretty sure he tapped her on the shoulder or just started talking from behind her, and when that eventually ended in a blowout called it a night. Never seen again.
"Thinking too much will get you analysis paralysis" = didn't want to open any sets when I asked, even when I said he could talk to guys as well. Said he had 20 approaches in the last 5 months. I told him just to walk around until he was comfortable with approaching and we'd meet up later. Never seen again.
The moral of the story is most guys will talk the big talk or just love to believe they're in the 10% because they created an account and read some posts that one time. If you'd rather go home than approach on command, what was the point of coming out in the first place? If you want to watch a guy do his thing, there's plenty of videos for that online. And you won't have to be the creepy lingering guy.
Talking shop for a couple hours won't result in either of us emptying our balls all over a chick's face at the end of the night. But approaching 10-20 girls in a night will. Or did you think you were gonna poach one of the girls from the set I opened??
Fuck that shit. Bitch you wasn't with me in the gym lifting these heavy ass weights!
ninjamatt wrote:I need to get up with you bull run at a place of your choice. I have sister in downtown dallas i need to come see any way. I wanna see if you are all computer talk or can do something.
It appears Triumvirate has beaten me to the punch, but if anybody is going to talk big game online, I want them to put their money where their mouth is. Within the week. Anybody on this forum who has given half a shit about going out I've already met, or they went to the presentation a few weeks ago. So far you've told me race isn't a factor, your wings are intimidated by your skill, and you could get pretty much any girl you want. I'd love to be humbled by your real ultimate power.