Your 'Game' may have nothing to do with you

[Tribulus1000]

As odd as it sounds, you game may have little or nothing to do with you and more to do with how the female acts or reacts.
This is a real kick in the head because everything you read and your own ego would have you believe that YOU are in control.
All of the Self Help and Success literature is written from the idea that the all powerful YOU is in control. All the time.
However, when dealing with others, they are often unpredictable and independent. Especially women- that is probably a huge understatement.
The truth is we have little control over others. No matter how good your 'Game' is there is always someone who can say 'no' to it.

Think of it this way, if all those guys who are salesman by trade (Mystery, Ross Jeffries, etc.) could really control others so easily, they would end up controlling the world! The NLP guys would rule the world.

And since this is reality....it hasn't happened.

** Just as an aside, does anyone see the value in saying 'no' to a guy's game? It raises her value. By not being easy, she's saying she's worth more. I hope you get that.

You may have heard that women are the 'gatekeepers'. This is true. You may have heard that you can only control what you do and not what others do. Also true.

This puts a real damper on the guys who are striving for 'Game Mastery'. Me thinks 'Game Mastery' is 70% lies at least.

So what's a guy to do? Why continue?
Well, there is one powerful true reason to sharpen one's 'skills' and that is the skill of observation.
Because, guys, we can all tell when something isn't working and try to put it right or at least keep going so we might get a little further with a girl.
However, the more important lesson is to recognize when things go RIGHT.

Realizing when things are going your way is the most important thing you can learn from PUA. Because you know when to shift, when to accelerate, when to stop and sometimes when to walk away. (sounds like Kenny Rogers haha).

But really, who cares if its you at that point. You're in. When you're in, you're golden. And forget all that nonsense about 'game mastery'....just have fun with a great gal.

Realizing and recognizing when things go good. That is the best lesson anyone can learn from any of this. Beyond that its just approach approach approach. And get rejected countless times.

And the thing you realize from when things go good is that it was her decision. Sometimes girls just decide you are ok and worth hanging around and worth fucking. That's it.

[Mojo]

True, no one has absolute control over everything. However, by saying we have little control over other things is throwing away your ability to change your life for the better.

You have more control over your life than you can imagine.

People who believe that others control their fate make that belief into a reality. You can’t get far in life, including pick up, with that limiting belief. Mike, a millionaire in Austin I met a few years ago (he also briefly housed Project Austin in his mansion), gave me his book. In it he wrote the following two reaffirmations had a powerful influence in his success:

“Everything I need is already in me”

“Every day in every way, I’m getting better and better”

Those are two power reaffirmations. Repeat those to yourself everyday and see how the new programming in your mind allows you to do things you could not before imagine! Over time you will realize you have more control over your life than you though imaginable. Good things will happen.

There is not much separating a millionaire from a regular guy on the street. Only their mindset.

As for how sweet Asian women treat their man....

I know it is an eye-opener to visit a 2nd or 3rd world Asian country and have women throw themselves at you. To have these beautiful woman treat you like a rock star is a good feeling. It is easy to scorn American woman for not doing the same. Though, know, YOU ARE A ROCKSTAR in the eyes of these Asian women. American men are perceived as 1) high status, 2) wealthy, 3) and totally Rock Starish. I F-closed 3 in one 24 hour period in Indonesia, not because I have super power pua skills, but mostly because I was American. Some of the women I met through my travels in Asia scorned local men. Don’t you think those men feel the same resentment against their women as you do with American women?

The psychological aspects you learn here still apply to women all around the world. Asian women covet Americans because of their value, not just because they are nicer. If you are a local Asian farmer working in the fields, you’re outta luck.

Don’t blame American women for bad experiences. Start with yourself. Know you have it within yourself to take control of your destiny. Know you can make yourself awesomely attractive to women...

"Attraction is not a choice" as David DeAngelo would say.