And there were guys who I thought were pretty good at it. They could do things like get 5 minute kiss closes and make outs.
One guy I knew could pull from Sherlocks Addison/Arlington on a regular basis. He had alot of his own routines.
It was cool to dress up, memorize routines, go out and approach. I also used to learn some NLP and speed seduction style stuff.
Some guys were really into the whole exclusive Club Game where you go to these really expensive, exclusive clubs and make friends and do basically social circle stuff. I tried that too...it took too much time, money and effort so I dropped it.
Later on, I learned something that you might not want to hear.
It was only when I started doing internet game / online dating that I came across one of the biggest secrets in PUA/Game.
Its so simple, its stupid.
Here it is.....
None of that stuff makes any difference. And the shortest route to sex is the easiest and best one to use.
There is nothing wrong with learning and being comfortable with going out to bars, hitting on girls, getting phone numbers, getting kisses, being social.
But if your goal is to get laid, its all superfluous. Its the extra stuff.
What I learned with internet game and later when I went overseas was that you can cut out alot of stuff and still do the same things.
For example, get a phone number. Call it or text her. Get a date. Invite her over to your place. done.
That's pretty much it.
What about resistance? Yes there is always resistance and you need to be like a good salesman and not get upset when your prospect says 'no'. And you can develop tactics and strategies for them to get from A to B to C.
What I mean here is that A to B to C is phone number -> coffee -> movies at your house -> sex in bedroom.
Its not... dress up and wear top hat -> Go to club and use memorized lines and magic tricks -> try to impress people -> become a regular at the club -> eventually go for movies at your house -> sex in bedroom.
We could just chop 80% of that away.
Now I'm sure alot of you guys reading this are just rolling your eyes....
... thinking 'yeah so what?'or that you already knew this.
But then you'll go out to the bar and hang with the guys and talk to a few chicks running your 'game'.
Ok fine. Like I said, its ok to learn that stuff. Just know that its not needed.
I read a LR recently where the guy just got the number very quickly and ended up banging the chick. There ya go...there is the proof.
Nothing fancy about it.
Also with that, you gotta understand that its a numbers game and the more you do, the more you get. Even Mystery acknowledged this fact.
So not to be a wet blanket, but alot of this stuff is not needed, wasted time and energy.
Just remember this when the next big shot rolls into town and is doing bootcamps or whatever.
-Trib
