DHV spikes

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i don't know to create them, I don't know how to use them, I understand that they create value and make you look high value. Could someone explain to me how to do this because im SOL until I get my sense of humor back for PU.

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Im super desperate for the advice. Please help! I know this is common sense to most of you but to a beginner like me, im super confused because by being a Natural who converted to being a AFC this stuff is completely different that what I used to do. Plus im super dedicated to figure this stuff out.

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Your dhv spikes should come naturally through the course of conversation. If it's not natural, then it appears that you're bragging and try-hard. The key is to appear that you're not bragging; girls hate this. So I would pepper dhv spikes within the conversation.

When you get good enough, you will be able to lead conversations with multiple threads that "coincidentally" include several dhv's (stories, experiences, job, education, etc).

For example, let's say that a dhv you have is that you backpacked through Europe after college. This is how you would bring that up naturally.

Pua: so what are your passions? What is it that you do when you're not at work or in school?
Hb: oh I love to travel (many girls will prob say something that can easily be linked to travelling or would say something and then ask what your passions are).. Blah blah blah
pua: wow, that's amazing! I actually backpacked through europe (then go into your story or whatever)...

Then thread and set up a day two:

pua: yea, while I was in Europe. I had the most amazing Italian wines. Do you like wine?
Hb: oh I love wine! Blah blah blah
pua: well, we should definitely go wine tasting sometime. I know of a fantastic spot...
Hb: sure I'd love to!

Then you go for the number close...

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[QUOTE=Prodigy;40786]Your dhv spikes should come naturally through the course of conversation. If it's not natural, then it appears that you're bragging and try-hard. The key is to appear that you're not bragging; girls hate this. So I would pepper dhv spikes within the conversation.

When you get good enough, you will be able to lead conversations with multiple threads that "coincidentally" include several dhv's (stories, experiences, job, education, etc).

For example, let's say that a dhv you have is that you backpacked through Europe after college. This is how you would bring that up naturally.

Pua: so what are your passions? What is it that you do when you're not at work or in school?
Hb: oh I love to travel (many girls will prob say something that can easily be linked to travelling or would say something and then ask what your passions are).. Blah blah blah
pua: wow, that's amazing! I actually backpacked through europe (then go into your story or whatever)...

Then thread and set up a day two:

pua: yea, while I was in Europe. I had the most amazing Italian wines. Do you like wine?
Hb: oh I love wine! Blah blah blah
pua: well, we should definitely go wine tasting sometime. I know of a fantastic spot...
Hb: sure I'd love to!

Then you go for the number close...[/QUOTE]

Wow, thats kind of what i used to do before PU. Except I would tell them a funny story and be very entertaining/interesting. Also AFC adam taught me to do this through using light qualifiers a.k.a commonalities. You find several things in common then you break rapport. After that your supposed to qualify then sexually escalate/kino/verbal escalation.

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I'd recommend you get out there and talk to as many women as possible. Don't worry about if you are sexually attracted to them, just start making conversation with anyone thats willing. Don't worry about demonstrating value at first. But to talk about things you've done in life that set you apart from the typical guy. Weave these into your conversation just like Prodigy suggested and pay special attention to your audiences body language and how receptive they were to what you said. This will help you to pinpoint what people find interesting and valuable about you.

Practice doing this in Stripperville. No where else can you talk to so many chics in the course of a few hours.

One thing I do to demonstrate some value is ask a girl if she likes to dance. The answer is yes 95pct of the time. So we'll start talking about dancing and after a few minutes I'll say "I've been taking dance lessons at Cowboys on Thursday nights for the past few months" blah blah blah. This boosts their attraction for me by demonstrating a skill I have that most don't.

I never had to tell her how good I was at dancing so I didn't come across as trying hard. I just simply made a statement that I was taking lessons and she assumed I was.

My wingman can speak about 4 different languages. So whenever were out he'll find a foreign looking girl and ask her where she's from. If she's from a spanish speaking country he'll start conversing in spanish. His value skyrockets instantly. Even some of the more culturally adept girls who only speak english are impressed.

I am sure you read my dating profile I posted a few weeks back. Its basically one huge DHV. If you know women well its not hard to get a conversation going about "women/men/dating". You'll set yourself apart when you start explaining the female mindset to another woman. This is an instant dhv. They might not agree with 100pct but they'll be able to relate and see you as a guy who knows what he's doing in a relationship by the things you say.

Basically just size up your audience(calibrate), find some common ground, and interject something that shows you are valuble without saying you are. You want your dhv to set you apart from all those other guys that shes talked to before you.