What was your a-ha moment?

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And what was the a-ha part?

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[QUOTE=Finesse;39993]And what was the a-ha part?[/QUOTE]

In terms of PU ... it's cliche, but the a-ha moment first began when I read The Game. I finished it literally in a day. For someone who had never cold-approached before, realizing that I could learn it was surreal.

The a-ha moment was cemented in my psyche when, a month later, I got my first cold approach same night make out, and hooked up with the girl later in the week.

Yes, slightly shallow, but this realization that I could change - that my identity isn't as fixed as I had thought it to be - isn't just limited to PU and girls.

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Mine had to be when I really started to figure women out. That ah-ha moment happened minutes before I figured out the truth about women.

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Mine was at The Corner Bar in the Spring of 2007. It was a Wednesday and I was solo sarging, actually it was probably the first time I ever went solo.

Anyway, I number closed the hottest chick I'd ever pulled in my life.

She left with her friends. I stayed a few minutes longer to see if I had any other sets to work. I didn't find any so I paid my tab and walked out the front door.

My ah-ha moment was when my phone rang as I was stepping outside. It was the girl I just number closed asking me to come over. Ah-ha!! This shit actually works.

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[QUOTE=Finesse;39993]And what was the a-ha part?[/QUOTE]

for me, there was never really an "ah-ha" moment. it was more like a light that started dim and gradually grew brighter vs. a switch that just turned on the light to its brightest.

i think, seeing some of the guys' success, as well as my own, really proved that stuff works....

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First make-out session after slightly dabbling in some of this material. It was a two-set, and the interaction was no more than 10 minutes long. I was surprised at how easy it was; also surprised that both girls were referring to me as "hot". Everything clicked for me in a way it never had before, and suddenly I was able to look back on previous experiences and see a lot of missed opportunities I had been oblivious to.