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Online Game 1st - I'm Stumped

PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 4:16 pm
by Guest
Alright gentlemen I've got a bit of a quandry that I'm trying to work through right now and was hoping you guys can help me get my creative juices flowing.

I just received a wink from a girl that I have previously sent an email volley. This, in and of itself, is not odd. The odd part is that I've sent her TWO different openers over the last few months without any success. Now, the chances are pretty high that she's never actually read either volley but I don't want to risk it in my first email to her in response to her wink.

You guys have any suggestions for opening this one? I absolutely do not want to remind her that she didn't respond to my previous emails...talk about a DLV. But, my aresenal of openers remaining won't really work on this one, they just aren't calibrated to her (she's a typical Uptown blonde, 23, nice body, very attractive)...further, she doesn't really have a profile with a lot of meat in it. She doesn't give much to work with you know besides her pics...one of which is of her playing beer pong, which I may be able to work with.

Any thoughts gents?

PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 4:21 pm
by Guest
Here is what I say to every single girl that winks at me, regardless of circumstance.

"hi winky."

She winked at you, let her say what she wants. They always respond to this. Even if it's just "hi", it's a start. No need to remind her. No need for a long e-mail. Just say hi winky.

...imagine if you send her yet ANOTHER semi-long opener and she ignored that one also.

PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 8:22 pm
by Guest
I don't think I can help you out but Lion's answer sounds goo. I am curious about something. Does sending multiple emails or a few to someone that doesn't respond work eventually or sometimes?

PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 8:29 pm
by Guest
"I can already tell from that pic of your beer pong technique [blah blah blah]"

PostPosted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 8:33 pm
by Guest
When I'm IN that sort of predicament I usually say something like: "you know its against the RULES of MATCH.com to just wink and not say hi. Then tease her about being the Texas beer pong champion.

PostPosted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 10:09 am
by Guest
[QUOTE=Budguy68;38741]I don't think I can help you out but Lion's answer sounds goo. I am curious about something. Does sending multiple emails or a few to someone that doesn't respond work eventually or sometimes?[/QUOTE]


Thanks for the input guys.

I've accidentally sent her more than one email. Usually, I send one and if I don't hear from her then I move on. In this case, I did not. I only even remember her because I KNOW I sent her more than one email.

And, no. If you keep sending emails it doesn't help you at all. Actually, it hurts you. One email, if no response then you NEXT her.