A Eureka Moment
Posted: Wed Oct 13, 2010 1:45 pmToday, I had a Eureka moment. I had to post this because it validates my membership to this forum (community) and my respect for many of you guys. I'm also posting it because I'm so fucking happy that I'm finally seeing results in the changes that I have made internally and externally.
The back story: I took my car in on Saturday to Sears in order to get my rear tires replaced. During the visit they broke one of the pressure monitors for my tires and said they would replace it gratis in a few days. So today I took it back around lunch.
The other side of the background is that I have been experimenting with different sexual stereotypes as far as fashion goes. I've been focusing on business man stereotype with variations (wearing a graphic tee under a sports coat vs a dress shirt, slacks vs jeans, adding and subtracting jewelry, doing hair differently, etc...
I've also been working on walking more slowly, head up, chin out, taking up space, and posture when walking around. Basically, I try to walk around like I own the place.
The Eureka moment:
At approximately ~12:40 PM, this afternoon, I am walking aimlessly through the mall while I wait for Sears auto to get done with my car. Two HB8 walk past me and give me a flirt. I respond and we have a good exchange, in fact, and awesome exchange. This is without a doubt the first time I have been approached versus actively approaching. This is the holy grail of what I have been working on and it all came together today.
Three Cheers for ME! Three Cheers for the Dallas Lair! and Three Cheers for you guys for being generous with this information and helping to guide me!
The back story: I took my car in on Saturday to Sears in order to get my rear tires replaced. During the visit they broke one of the pressure monitors for my tires and said they would replace it gratis in a few days. So today I took it back around lunch.
The other side of the background is that I have been experimenting with different sexual stereotypes as far as fashion goes. I've been focusing on business man stereotype with variations (wearing a graphic tee under a sports coat vs a dress shirt, slacks vs jeans, adding and subtracting jewelry, doing hair differently, etc...
I've also been working on walking more slowly, head up, chin out, taking up space, and posture when walking around. Basically, I try to walk around like I own the place.
The Eureka moment:
At approximately ~12:40 PM, this afternoon, I am walking aimlessly through the mall while I wait for Sears auto to get done with my car. Two HB8 walk past me and give me a flirt. I respond and we have a good exchange, in fact, and awesome exchange. This is without a doubt the first time I have been approached versus actively approaching. This is the holy grail of what I have been working on and it all came together today.
Three Cheers for ME! Three Cheers for the Dallas Lair! and Three Cheers for you guys for being generous with this information and helping to guide me!