I didn't really go out last night with the intent of sarging, actually I just went out to play some pool with my neighbor. However, without the intent it made everything feel more natural, and I ended up talking to this 3 set. HB6, HB5 and a monster.
I opened with "who lies more" and that went on for awhile. I was amazed how well it worked, even though it wasn't anchored to anything and I didn't give a false time restraint. After that was drawing to a close, I noticed a ring on the HB5's fingers, and asked her about it (to fill the gap in silence) turned out it was a service ring which fed into how service is important to her, blah blah... I was pretty amazed at how quickly to conversation turned and how I was able to control the topic. However, I also learned that I need to really work on listening to the important cues in conversations so that I can thread them better. Any advice here?
The other thing I need to work on is kino. I am really uncomfortable with the idea of just reaching out and touching someone. I am not really sure about how to do this in a non-creepy way.
At the end of the night I was able to num close the HB5, but there was something going on with HB6, she wasn't going to be closed.FR
