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Strippers and pros

PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 1:04 pm
by Guest
There's this stripper I've been seeing for a while, off and on. I'm really not that into her, but anyway, I have a question about these women.

She says things that sure seem like she's a hooker. She says a guy, a client, bought her a laptop for $1,000 the other day after taking her to PF Chang's.

So maybe she is, maybe she isn't. She sure seems like she's into me. I go weeks without contacting her, she texts me. Stuff like that. I've had sex her three times, and she's hinted about boyfriend/girlfriend shit.

Anyway, if that's what she wants, why in the hell would she be painting a picture of her being a hooker? I know 80% of the strippers are also hookers.

So yesterday, I met a friend at Redneck Heaven in Lewisville for lunch. I was working some strong eye contact with this really hot waitress. It was on, for the most part. But she said she also works as a bartender at a strip club at nights. Then she went on to say that some guy "bought her off" last night for $300. I asked for details, she said she had some guy buy a $300 bottle of Dom and she had to go into the private room with him for an hour. She said he was creepy, and she was texting her manager the whole time.

So...why do women do this? Why would they paint a picture that sure makes it LOOK like they're hookers? Are they doing this because their self esteem is SO LOW that they think they are increasing their value by telling stories about how other men pay for their affection? I just don't see how such a beautiful girl could have self esteem issues that big.

What the fuck?

PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 1:12 pm
by Guest
[QUOTE=Alphagame;36171]

Are they doing this because their self esteem is SO LOW that they think they are increasing their value by telling stories about how other men pay for their affection? I just don't see how such a beautiful girl could have self esteem issues that big.

What the fuck?[/QUOTE]


Yes

Before you posted that line I was thinking they are saying it because in their heads they think it makes them sound like a catch. Some random guy bought me a laptop. I must be awesome.

I have known a few strippers in my days and I must say they were all bottom of the barrel. Strippers are fucked in the head mentally. You just have to keep that in mind.

And yes all women no matter of their beauty have self esteem issues.

PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 1:25 pm
by Guest
I know a handful of ex-Hooters girls. They have wealthy regulars who establish a sort of friendship with the girls, and randomly buy them shit. Granted, some of the girls DO return the favor in that sexual way, but most do not. One guy sends 5 girls a year to Cancun. He doesn't go. My best chick friend (who is one of the ex-Hooter girls I spoke of) went for 3 years and never did she even hint at anything sexual toward this guy. I think he just appreciates the attention from so many young attractive women that that's his way of repaying them. So, I wouldn't necessarily jump to the "hooker" thing with the 1st chick...but the champagne room one is iffy. Strip clubs have champagne rooms, and if you work there, you gotta go when picked. What happens is up to the chick. Some girls get down, I'm sure others do what they do out in the club...but all their focus is on that one guy.

PostPosted: Thu May 13, 2010 5:19 pm
by Guest
PC is generally correct. Strippers are usually tainted in some way or another. They've confused sex with geniune affection/love. And, they just want to be loved, so they throw their sexuality at men. That, and that's all they have to offer the world...a few warm holes.

But, there are a lot of regulars that buy shit for hot women without getting anything in return. They'll just buy them gifts and exchange, the stripper/hot girl/slut/whatever showers them with gratitude and affection. But, usually not sex.

I remember once I brought a guy that does exactly that to one of our meet ups and he had the nerve to call us pathetic. I told him that we spend little to no money on women and get to fuck them...he spends a shit ton on them and they won't fuck him. He didn't seem to like that very much. Needless to say, we aren't friends any longer.

Great post...totally enjoy...

PostPosted: Fri May 14, 2010 12:14 am
by Guest
Although I have never date a stripper, I can totally understand some of them can have a special way of thinking, especially because in the world they are living and moving around, that definitely can play tricks on the mind.

I just like to add that at the very end, they are still normal human beings that just want to be loved. Everybody wants to be loved and I think most of them have a child inside of them...I remember the thing from mistery in dating Hired Guns....be ready to the break down when you cross the line and meet the real girl inside the stripper.

PostPosted: Mon May 17, 2010 10:14 am
by Guest
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PostPosted: Thu May 20, 2010 11:08 am
by Guest
Wow UH... you've been withholding a gold mine....

lol

That stripper site is a flippin awesome site just to get into girls minds in general.... regardless of whether they are strippers.

That site dispells all the societal views and screens that are placed around women, something most men don't even know about but are here to learn.

Very good reads on there.

PostPosted: Thu May 20, 2010 12:14 pm
by Guest
wow...that forum just reminded me why I don't go to strip clubs

$$ for stage dance
$$$ for lap dance
$$$$$$$$$$$$ for VIP room
Hell, they're even talking about charging just to talk to them

Just for some chick to rub her ass on you and god forbid if you touch her... fuck that shit... totally not worth it...

How could people critisize PUA when there are organizations like this who are so much more...malicious


Edit: Malicious might not be the right word...Thesaurus.com says that my word should be "Voracious" or "predatory"

...works for me...

PostPosted: Fri May 21, 2010 6:56 am
by Guest
Muk- it's the business of seduction..... and the goal is to make $$$. You constantly have to be in happy-go-lucky party mode every day. You try and resist the drugs and alcohol that are every where. The managers are some of the sleaziest people there are. You don't have "friends" at work. Its very cut-throat. You put up with random guys trying to stick their fingers in you, suck on your boobs, pull their dick out, etc.,.....girls hate that crap. Management will always side with the customer. Every night you have to tip out to the DJ, managers, bartenders, house mom, and who ever else there is. These girls aren't getting rich like they want you to think or it may appear. Most treat you like you are a lesser person because you are a stripper. You get rejected for dances all night long.

I've had some of the best nights of my life partying with strippers. You roll up in there looking nice, smelling right, high energy, very social, and convince them that you are a blast to hang out with and supply a little alcohol and you'll have a party right at your table. You'll get all that stuff you mentioned for next to nothing! :cool: Might even get a few phone numbers out of the deal. You become regular and you'll have girls that hang out with you every week and are happy to see you. You get to know the bar staff/strippers and they start handing you free passes.

I rarely have that much fun partying with civilian girls in regular bars. I can go a long ways on $30.

If you ever want any tips on strip club game, shoot me a message. I've spent 15years going to those joints and am very familiar with what it takes to seduce them instead of them seducing you!

PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2011 12:39 am
by Guest
[QUOTE=Muk;36201]wow...that forum just reminded me why I don't go to strip clubs

$$ for stage dance
$$$ for lap dance
$$$$$$$$$$$$ for VIP room
Hell, they're even talking about charging just to talk to them

Just for some chick to rub her ass on you and god forbid if you touch her... fuck that shit... totally not worth it...

How could people critisize PUA when there are organizations like this who are so much more...malicious


Edit: Malicious might not be the right word...Thesaurus.com says that my word should be "Voracious" or "predatory"

...works for me...[/QUOTE]

thats so true and it makes your situation harder to game them.