Dallas PUA

After coming back from college in boston, I've caught up with a ton of my friends from highschool. One in particular is a really hot girl (she is in college) who has a boyfriend from college (he doesn't live in dallas).

So far, I have actually gamed this girl better than any other girl. I have successfully disqualified her: for example I told her I could never date her cause she is too nice and needs a boyfriend who buys her dinner. I could tell this particularly shocked her and she actually said that her bf sent her flowers the other day (she said it as if she didnt like it). I've done strawberry fields (i busted on her for picking 17 strawberrys). And I've even done role reversal (we keep joking about her wanting to rape me since she got lost while driving me to a party).

We have flirted back and forth incessantly and I can tell her attraction level is very high. Over Xmas break and now during summer she has kept saying how much I've changed. She has been really blunt about flirting sometimes, saying how hot I look in a red, how she wants me to give her guitar lessons, kinoing a lot, etc.

I have two obstacles:

1)I didn't isolate her at the party (so many highschool friends there and I know that girls don't want to be seen as sluts) but now I don't know how to get her to hang out just me and her. I haven't done a lot of comfort biut i have known her for some time so she knows I'm not a rapist. Also, on strawberry fields, she said that her fence was really high, so i have a good segue into comfort by asking her about her ambitious goals, dreams, etc if I could just get her alone.

2)I think she's starting to get buyers remorse. Either that, or she's playing a little harder to get. She used to call me back ALWAYS. Well today i called her and although she didn't pick up, she texted me back. I told her to call me back at 6 and she never did. Now this is not a big deal, but she's been noticeably more aloof lately and i feel as though she's trying to avoid me more/logically persuade herself not to fall for me.

Do you all have suggestions on how to pursue this?

EDIT: she just texted me again while I was writing this post and said "call you in a bit?" I still think she's purposely trying not to get too into me, though.

she is, you need to set up a "day 2" (even though its really like a day 12 or something)

Shit or get off the pot man.

I would recommend the "Im going to do this tomorrow, you should tag along" bit or ill tell you what man... tell her you are going to go see xmovie, and that you were inviting some of your friends. Invite her and then tell her to bring a friend, but "only 1" cause we can only have a few of "you weirdoes" running around. I'll wing you if you decide on this one. Just let me know.

Highschool? How old is this girl?

haha they're like 19 or so

I had a hot lil 21 y/o at my place last nite. I feel like a dirty old man

haha you are haha

Scoundrel wrote:Highschool? How old is this girl?

whoops...I didn't make myself clear enough....we're both 20 and both of us are in college but we have known each other since highschool.

"I'm going to the art museum tomorrow, and you should come with me. Meet me at my house at noon, and we'll ride together."

The point is, you need to move forward and keep pushing the envelope, or it will go stale.

Skate or die bro.

she didnt return my calls last night, but she called me today while I was at work and left me a message asking me to call her back.

Should I "punish" her bad behavior and not call her back today? I have a tendency to try not to act clingy and desperate by ignoring a girl for awhile if she does something like not return my calls.

UPDATE*

She called me a 2nd time today and i didn't pick up the phone. But then I called a wing for advice and he told me that she is making an effort and that he advised me to call her back. He told me what Sinn said, in summation: we all focus on what being alpha is and whether we should do this or do that, but the fact of the matter is that alpha guys get what they want. It's that simple. Another excellent quote.

I talked to her for awhile and the conversation once again turned sexual. I'm getting pretty good at this sexual framing. We were talking about girls writing their phone numbers on my ticket (i'm a waiter), and the risk of them writing the number on the wrong ticket (the one that the manager keeps). I embedded this DHV nicely, she now knows girls give me their number at my restaurant.

Then she said, "I'm gonna come in there and write about our hook ups and dirty sex messages on the ticket that the manager sees."

To which i responded, "but then we won't get to hook up anymore, and you don't want that."

She also qualified herself but the qualification was pretty ridiculous. In highschool I had a joke about having high standards. Girls couldnt poop/fart/burp. Everyone knew about my "standards" and thought it was funny (incidentally, a few girls thought I was somewhat serious and that my standards were really high).

Anyways, after my hookup comment she said, "that's true. and then you'd have to find another girl that doesn't fart or poop, and you know I don't fart."

She then invited me to The Fray concert tomorrow and that her and her friends want to get a lot of people to go. I don't want to be with her in public yet again, but do you think a concert provides good opportunity for isolation and a hookup?