attraction/rejection

[MagicBalls]

I don't know if it's my Buddhist beliefs or my belief in evolution that is influencing me, or perhaps both, but when I interact with a female now, I dont' take attraction or rejection personally. If she's spouting out IOI's like a bitch in heat or if she's putting me in ignoreland like if she is made of stone, it doesn't matter. Ultimately we are all a product of nature, and we are driven by our instincts. Rationalization, idealization, and justification comes after. So if a girl is giving me overt IOI's, I just think, "This is nature at work. I need to move in and do my part." You are only a participator in the mating dance. You, too, are a product of nature, merely giving in to your inner drives. Like two eagles in the mating ritual, you come together in an aerial dance choreographed millions of years ago.

Sex and sexuality are a gift from nature, and they are rightfully mine. They are rightfully yours as well. In the words of the great philospher Jimmy Frank, "You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals, So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel."