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What makes gays so attractive to women?

PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:51 pm
by Guest
It's a secret I've been never able to fully unlock. When I first got into PU, I hung around lots of them, figured they were the ultimate naturals, and they didn't even know it (or more likely didn't want to be). Like the other day I heard some HB talk about how much she wishes her gay roommate were straight. She woudl totally marry him. She can't even walk into the same room he's in without getting all twinkle-eyed and smiley faced.

Like I said, I've never been able to fully solve their mystery, but I have my theories.

1) They know how to dress.
2) They're comfortable around women (because they're not trying to fuck them)
3) Their flamboyant personalities make them the life-of-the-party.
4) They are interested in girl-friendly topics of conversation (fashion, relationships, gossip, etc....)
5) Women don't find them threatening (because they're not trying to fuck them)
6) They tend to be emotional people (like women)

Feel free to add yours.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 4:55 pm
by Guest
They are the ultimate challenge.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:34 pm
by Guest
I don't think there's anything attractive about being gay [i]per se[/i], but I do agree that gays more often have those traits and that those are attractive. And gays may be given the benefit of the doubt regarding those traits too, i.e. prejudice.

And also I'd point out that "want to marry" or "want to hang out with" or "want to fuck" are very, very different from each other.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 5:40 pm
by Guest
want to share a kitchen and make a souffle with, is different than wanting to tackle.

The "Girls day" in"I now pronounce you chuck and Larry " is a great example of this.

PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 6:47 pm
by Guest
Its also having the confidence to go against the grain in a way .

PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 7:08 pm
by Guest
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I don't think there's anything attractive about being gay [i]per se[/i], but I do agree that gays more often have those traits and that those are attractive. And gays may be given the benefit of the doubt regarding those traits too, i.e. prejudice.
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Naturally there are some wild generalizations in the above post. I only made them for the sake of simplification, and assumed people on here would understand.

PostPosted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 7:04 pm
by Guest
It's simple, gay men don't give a shit about what women think. Because they don't give a shit they aren't judging them. A woman doesn't worry about how she's perceived.

It takes a shitload of confidence to admit publicly that they are gay. Confidence is attractive and openly gay men have ass loads of it.

women don't feel threatened, intimidated or objectified.

PostPosted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 6:54 pm
by Guest
It's just a fun thing to say. It's not true.

PostPosted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 10:36 am
by Guest
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It's just a fun thing to say. It's not true.
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What's not true? Can you elaborate a little on that statement?