Dallas PUA

so, i know that many of you guys use myspace/facebook as a way to keep in touch with women as well as gaming them...

my question is, how do you hide the women in your rotation from finding out about each other? i would think that most women would be very upset that you're dating multiple people at the same time...

my situation:

i am in the early stages of the dating game with two different girls. you know, texting, talking on the phone and i've even seen them several times...i have been conciously trying NOT to set the bf frame; never using us or we, etc., but i think i may have failed.

one girl is young, 20 years old, and i feel that she likes me waay to much and is already attached. the other one also likes me very much, but not sure if she is looking for a relationship...

what can i say? im a likable high value man! :)

..anyways, having said that, one knows that i have myspace (and probably checks it everyday lol haha jk, she doesnt) and the other one recently asked if i have a facebook, and i have a feeling she may have a myspace as well. so she may eventually ask if i have a myspace or come across it in the future...

i suspect that if i continue to date both women, they will leave comments on my myspace (and read the others comments) and get very upset to find out taht i have been dating two women at once!

so i have thought about this and here are some things i can do:

1. lie and tell the other one i do not have a myspace.
flaw: what if she finds it in the future? shed be pissed..

2. set my privacy settings so that i must approve all comments.
flaw: she'll wonder why i didnt approve her comments, once again, she'll start thinking crazy shit....

3. hide my comments section so no one can see it.

option 3 is probably the best...

..your thoughts?

Screen comments, put one on FB and the other on MySpace, etc. Tell them you rarely check either so you can not add shit here and there, make it known you got lots of female friends and only post comments that come off in that way (one I use the most.)

Option 4: Let them all see it, get jealous, and become more attracted to you. No need to lie about anything. These women aren't your wife or girlfriend. The more comments you get from women the more value you have in their eyes.

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Option 4: Let them all see it, get jealous, and become more attracted to you. No need to lie about anything. These women aren't your wife or girlfriend. The more comments you get from women the more value you have in their eyes.
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Agreed 100%

This is the only option you should consider.

[blockquote]Option 4: Let them all see it, get jealous, and become more attracted to you. No need to lie about anything. These women aren't your wife or girlfriend. The more comments you get from women the more value you have in their eyes.[/blockquote]

agreed
I make it one of my biggest priorities to be honest to women. Even if they are jealous they respect that I am honest and remember me for that, not some liar who acted like she was the only one. That said you don't want to share just everything. Keep it at "I'm seeing other girls" not "yea let me tell you about the amazing time me and lucy had last night without you."

Definitely agree with #4, but in the past I've been accused of being a "player" because of it. Not sure if this was necessarily a bad thing, but it did cause those involved to be more skeptical of me. The advantages far outway the disadvantages of option #4.

Yeah just be open and honest if they ask are you seeing other women. Don't bring the subject up unless they do. Like Zine mentioned don't rub anything in their faces.

Girls respect a guy who is honest about it.

They will try even harder to gain your affection.

I can't think of one time it has backfired on me.

hmm option 4, i like it!

thanks guys...!

Say what you want, but I've been put in multiple situations where it was or would have been better to have a slight bit of discretion when it comes to MySpace. Feel free to let it flow, but be mindful of the direction shit is going...it CAN bite you in the ass.

I have found that women can perceive if you are a player or not from the beginning...they don't need it shoved in their face through Facebook or Myspace. I have an active account on each and for each, have hidden all of my friends and my friend's comments. This may seem counterintuative based on all of the research that the community has done regarding promoting jealousy however, I have found that quality women that I desire don't want to compete with an online avenue. They are appreciative that I don't have an online account (because it is hidden). I can't tell you how many times I have been laid because some girl found it "refreshing" that she googled me (as all women do) and didn't find anything to embarass her in front of her friends. Add that into your perspective.....