Dallas Lair, Be AGRESSIVE!! (FR inside too)

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B-E BE! BE AGGRESSIVE! (..now imagine that in a sexy cheerleader voice...)

so the "elders" have been saying this for years and years, but i never really took heed, but recently, i've been more aggressive in my game and i will have to say that it has worked exceptionally well for me. the reason i think women find this attractive is because it shows that you know what you want and that youre going to get it. it displays confidence! it also shows this lack of fear of rejection/failure (risk taker) which most women find sexy...

heres a neat little story (LR if you will) to back this...

i have always been the nice, polite guy and fail to escalate becaase i was too concerned about crossing the line - afraid of being "creepy" or too forward, but you would be AMAZED AT WHAT YOU CAN GET AWAY WITH!

so i dated this hooters girl for a couple months, and the AFC side of me was always out to play. when we would be out, i failed to kino escalate numerous times which eventually lead to NO SEX! slowly, we just stopped seeing each other. the end. finite. its over... or so i thought....

about a month ago, i was at hooters and she was our waitress, we chit chat for a little bit, but nothing too crazy. just the usual, "hey how are you? how have you been? blah blah blah" bullshit. that night, she texts me and once again, nothing too crazy. a week later i ask her to go see a movie. she agrees and we go and watch "i love you man." we get back to her place and i get out of my car and just walked into her apt without even asking her if i could come in. that is usually not something i would normally do. with me just walking in and her not objecting, she basically agreed to let me in without asking me to come in...

when we get inside her place, we sit on the couch and watch tv for a bit, and typically i would just leave because i didnt feel that she was in the "mood." i got this notion because throughout the night, she kept on saying how tired she was, etc etc. i didnt like her anymore and i had nothing to lose, i was going to get fucked or shes kicking me out!! no if's, ands or butts. indifference is the difference. i HAD to make my move!

she was lying down and i was sitting, imagine a T, with her feet at my thighs as i was slowly carressing her legs...this was not a good position for me. i had to lean in and kiss, which i figured would come off as needy...so i cleverly asked her to get up and get me a glass of water, she does. as she is up, i ly down on the couch. she comes back and hands me the glass of water. i take it and set it on her coffee table. i grab her hand and pull her towards me as i kiss her. she sits down and we begin making out...i try to undress her, but she keeps saying that she is tired and has to be up early. i continue to push it. i pull the Style move and kiss her neck as i tell her that she should go to bed, that is money.

i push and push and eventually take her shirt off, then off goes the bra. its on like donkey kong!! we make out a little bit more in the missionary position, and then all of sudden, i slp my arm underneath her lower back, pick her up and carry her to the bedroom. she didnt resist at all! you can use your imagination to figure out what happens next :)

story 2, same girl..about 10:30 ish thursday night she texts me...

hb7: hey what are you up to?
Prodigy: Not much just chilling, reading
Hb7: thats cool. Im just watching tv
Prodigy: dont lie, you wnt me to come over ;-) haha
Hb7: lol oh yea
Prodigy: haha, we can hang out and watch tv
HB7: uhhuh
Prodigy: Well, what would you do if i told you im coming over?
HB7: just sit here lol
Prodigy: well then im coming over to sit with you
HB7: lol fine
Prodigy: see ya in a bit
HB7: k

i come over, long story short, we fuck like bunnies.

story 3: last saturday at the valet line outside kinki lounge after hanging out with Dr. Mike, i see this HB7.5 that i was gaming earlier in the night. in the club, i didnt get far with her as she was flirting with numerous guys and i didnt feel that there was a deep attraction so i ejected and continued to game other girls in th club....

we see each other outside and she compliments me on my dance moves. i saw this as an IOI, so i begin gaming her again and try to get her to bounce to Glo with us. she wasnt really having it and said that it was too late to bounce (it was about 130am)...usually i would just eject but i noticed she had her hands in her skirt pockets, and i say, "oh neat, your skirt has pockets...do they keep your hands warm?" she replies and says yes. i then get behind her, pull her hands out and put my hands in her pocket without even asking. to my surprise she DID NOT OBJECT at all! i was floored...i thought i was going to crash and burn horribly!!

i noticed that she was wearing a ring on her finger, couldve been married, engaged, wahtever..sadly, i didnt even attempt to number close her, but shouldve at least asked. who knows what couldve happened...

i apologize for making this seem like a FR/LR, but i wanted to convery the importance of pushing your comfort zone and being aggressive. in each one of those stories, i couldve been my usualy self (very timid) and i would not have been able to have the luck that i did. i was never aggressive before, but i have noticed that my game has exceled in the past few weeks. i havent changed anything besides being more aggressive. of course there are limits and you shouldnt be overtly sexual or too too aggressive, but i think being more aggressive will yield results for many guys on this board...

for those who do not believe my stories, i can show you the texts from the hooter's girl and Vector can vouch for me about having my hands in the girls pockets...

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Money

Hhaha I don't think anyone here needs proof of your success.

The only thing keeping you from seeing way more success than this is yourself and your limiting beliefs. I hope this success you are now seeing is opening your eyes to what is actually possible in this game.

I will say that your current new aggressive state is still passive. It is shocking just what you can get away with. Over time you will start to open up and realize what I am talking about. I was floored at some of the shit I started getting away with with these little hookers.

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Prodigy...you're a stud.

We all believe it, now, it's your turn to believe it and to SHOW it to the ladies.

Keep up the good work.

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Playercool, Bull Run,

There is absolutely no doubt in my mind that i am a stud and a man of high value. if there is any lack of confidence, it would be in my game.

the only reason i added the last couple of sentences in my post is because in the time that i have been doing this, i havent opened (or closed) nearly as much as i know i can. im sure some of the new guys see this; i certainly do not want to be known as a KJ...not that it matters really what they think...

its important that i am credible, thats the only way some of the noobs would take my post(s) seriously...and hopefully they can gather a few gold nuggets from my posts every once in a while..

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Money

Hhaha I don't think anyone here needs proof of your success.

The only thing keeping you from seeing way more success than this is yourself and your limiting beliefs. I hope this success you are now seeing is opening your eyes to what is actually possible in this game.

I will say that your current new aggressive state is still passive. It is shocking just what you can get away with. Over time you will start to open up and realize what I am talking about. I was floored at some of the shit I started getting away with with these little hookers.


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just curious, how aggressive are you in field? care to share some examples?

im still trying to get comfortable with being aggressive without beeing TOO forward...i want to see what i can get away with (of course i understand its different for each girl and i would have to calibrate)

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Money

Hhaha I don't think anyone here needs proof of your success.

The only thing keeping you from seeing way more success than this is yourself and your limiting beliefs. I hope this success you are now seeing is opening your eyes to what is actually possible in this game.

I will say that your current new aggressive state is still passive. It is shocking just what you can get away with. Over time you will start to open up and realize what I am talking about. I was floored at some of the shit I started getting away with with these little hookers.


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just curious, how aggressive are you in field? care to share some examples?

im still trying to get comfortable with being aggressive without beeing TOO forward...i want to see what i can get away with (of course i understand its different for each girl and i would have to calibrate)

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That's all you need to know. If you actually pay attention to the girl, her reactions to what you say/do (no matter how subtle the hint) will tell you EXACTLY what you can get away with. And, if by chance you do step a tad over the line, keep that big smile on your face and play it off. You don't need to see someone get away with this or that in field to know...you've got to feel it, bra.

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[quote1241368811=playercool]
Money

Hhaha I don't think anyone here needs proof of your success.

The only thing keeping you from seeing way more success than this is yourself and your limiting beliefs. I hope this success you are now seeing is opening your eyes to what is actually possible in this game.

I will say that your current new aggressive state is still passive. It is shocking just what you can get away with. Over time you will start to open up and realize what I am talking about. I was floored at some of the shit I started getting away with with these little hookers.


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just curious, how aggressive are you in field? care to share some examples?

im still trying to get comfortable with being aggressive without beeing TOO forward...i want to see what i can get away with (of course i understand its different for each girl and i would have to calibrate)

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How aggressive I am depends on so many things. Just like Smirks said you have to read the situation. Yes you will get a feel for it. And yes sometimes you will be wrong. While writing this I sat here thinking about how aggressive I really am. I looked back on a few examples in my head of times at bars and times on day2's. I would actually say I am passive about 75% of the time and aggressive 25% of the time. If you are always aggressive I think it comes off as weird. Many times being passive is actually the correct move(Really more times than not hence the 75%). There is a time and place for being aggressive. Over time you will start to see when the right time is. And yes sometimes in public at the venue is the correct time. Plus doing some of this stuff is fun and will make the evening exciting. I quickly came to realize that being aggressive is a serious turn on for most girls. If you lack it you will more than likely lose the girl. Or at the very least she will lose some/most attraction.

Overall I would say I am pretty aggressive in what I say and do. I will push the boundaries of social acceptance. Because most guys WON'T. So the female usually appreciates what I do. Girls like aggressive guys, as long as they are aggressive in the correct format.

Some examples:

Closing in an aggressive manner. Being bold with your closing statement. Don't ask to do something(Can I get your number)(Can I take you out)(Can I anything...) Make statements instead. (I am taking you out)(What is your number) <---- You are just assuming attraction here and in your mind there is ZERO chance of rejection. It has been my experience girls love this confidence. I have heard it a million times. I love your confidence.

Since I view making out with a girl you just met in the venue negatively I won't talk about that. Although every aspiring PUA should go ahead and do this a few times. It will also allow you to realize what you can get away with. So if you are new and reading this post then yes go for Kisscloses. You will learn from these although the odds of your nailing the girl goes down. I know that sounds crazy but in my experience true.

What you say: Now I will be the first to admit the hotter the girl the calmer I get in what I say. Yes I know that is probably wrong. I guess I just put so much more value on a better looking girl that I think I Can't get away with some of the stuff. Am I wrong? Maybe. But there is a chance I am correct if you view it from this standpoint. Are we all on the same level? I meet x girl and just from the get go are we really on the same level? I don't believe so. Because just think about from your point of view. You are at the venue and some girl you consider a 5 walks by. Do you put her on the same level as yourself? I know I don't. Now let's say instead a 10 walks by. What level is she to you? Well if you are like 99% of the guys out there she is on a higher level. So now in your head can you get away with saying crazy shit to this girl? Probably not.

With that said unfortunately what I say to girls changes based on how I value them. If the girl is what I consider a throw away girl(I would prob nail her but that is about it) I will have no problem saying crazy shit. I might tell her I am gonna nail her and cum on her face. And more than likely in her eyes I am a higher level than she is so I will get away with it.

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With that said unfortunately what I say to girls changes based on how I value them. If the girl is what I consider a throw away girl(I would prob nail her but that is about it) I will have no problem saying crazy shit. [b] I might tell her I am gonna nail her and cum on her face.[/b] And more than likely in her eyes I am a higher level than she is so I will get away with it.




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haha! that is HILARIOUS!!

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[quote1241453558=Prodigy]the only reason i added the last couple of sentences in my post is because in the time that i have been doing this, i havent opened (or closed) nearly as much as i know i can. im sure some of the new guys see this; i certainly do not want to be known as a KJ...not that it matters really what they think...[/quote1241453558]


Forget about them. When you sarge, you need to be lost in your own little world of excitement, mystique, and fun...then bring the ladies in.

Try to forget that other people are watching, the mere knowledge that you know you're being watched changes everything.

I forget the theory in science, but the idea of observing something changes everything.

The same holds true for what we do.

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[quote1241460768=Bull Run]

I forget the theory in science, but the idea of observing something changes everything.

The same holds true for what we do.

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aptly named... the "observer effect"...