Mystery says that you should live an attractive lifestyle.
I cannot go into detail on this because I do not want to go through all my mystery method crap and find where he says this, but I know he says this several times.
How the hell am I supposed to live an attractive lifestyle?
I am 19 yrs old and work at a Pizza Hut and attend a quad c.
My hobbies include playing rockband, studying pick up, porn, and sarging with my PUA buds(although soon I hope to start opening when I am alone).
My dreams are to one day become an English teacher or professor and to live in Alaska.
I would say my biggest accomplishment is becoming an Eagle scout.
That's pretty much me in a nutshell.
The most attractive part of my life, as viewed by me, is sarging, but I am not even sure that is attractive.
Obviously teachers do not make shit loads of money, but that is what I WANT to do.
At such a young age, what can I do to live an attractive lifestyle?
Am I already living an attractive lifestyle but cannot see it?
I know this will not make or break my game but it is my main problem with Mystery Method.
I think by saying this it makes him look like an egotistical self absorbed bitch.
But I have never really liked any of the "gurus" in the first place so yeah.
Dallas PUA
The Pickup Artist Playground
Live an attractive lifestyle.
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by Guest » Thu Mar 26, 2009 1:32 pm
I would say part of what he meant as far as living an attractive lifestyle is to not do the typical AFC thing of not having any life other than watching TV or playing XBOX - have some hobbies, play some sports, have real interests that you can talk about easily. You may not be able to live like you're rich, but you can have a rich personality/life that is attractive to women on a deeper level.
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by Guest » Thu Mar 26, 2009 2:31 pm
I'll use my self as an example! I've got two hobbies that are definitely a "lifestyle" and seem to attract females.
The first one is my motorcycle. You can't just have a bike that sits in the garage and you ride when the weather is nice. You have to get into the whole sport bike/harley lifestyle. It needs to be something you truly enjoy. Girls will be able to detect if its something your really not into. I think motorcycles attract girls because their fun, adventurous, and draw attention. Its also kind of a "macho" thing that a lot seem to like. The motorcycle crowd is full of badboys. Just look at the cocky/confident assholes on sportbikes that go blowing past you down the freeway! Haha.....I never do that. Everybody takes notice and girls seem to love that.....at least the ones I go with! lol.
I've posted a pic of me sitting on my motorcycle on myspace and it attracted girls like crazy. You'll never have a shortage of girls asking you for a ride either.
Whenever I tell a girl the story of how I crashed and burned at 100mph and got pretty fucked up and still ride, they are always impressed. It gives them some insight into your character and shows you are strong...........maybe stupid too! ;-)
My other hobby that pretty much consumes me is my racing. Its something that I am highly passionate about and my life revolves around it..............its a "lifestyle" and women just happen to find it pretty attractive. Women are impressed when a guy talks so passionately about something he is involved with. Again, its another hobby that is dangerous, fun, adventurous, dramatic, and your girl can stand right beside you in the spot light. I can sit there and tell you wild ass racing stories all night long. They involve fights, getting kicked out of race tracks, naked girls, crashes, wins, different places we've traveled to, famous drivers I've raced against, etc. You see, I've been there, done that and got the stories and scars to proove it! girls find that stuff interesting.
Whatever you choose, it needs to fit who you are. And it seems to be even better if its some hobby where the girl can be noticed along side you.
Girls seem to be pretty impressed with guys who play in bands. Playing rockband is cool, but playing in a real band is cooler! ;-)
Another reason to have some cool hobby that you are passionate about is because girls want to be able to tell their friends and family somthing impressive about you!
Find something you love to do, get involved in it, and get good at it. A cool side effect is when you have a hobby(attractive lifetstyle) that takes up a lot of your time, you don't make girls the center of your world. This makes those silly little hookers try even harder to grab your attention.
The first one is my motorcycle. You can't just have a bike that sits in the garage and you ride when the weather is nice. You have to get into the whole sport bike/harley lifestyle. It needs to be something you truly enjoy. Girls will be able to detect if its something your really not into. I think motorcycles attract girls because their fun, adventurous, and draw attention. Its also kind of a "macho" thing that a lot seem to like. The motorcycle crowd is full of badboys. Just look at the cocky/confident assholes on sportbikes that go blowing past you down the freeway! Haha.....I never do that. Everybody takes notice and girls seem to love that.....at least the ones I go with! lol.
I've posted a pic of me sitting on my motorcycle on myspace and it attracted girls like crazy. You'll never have a shortage of girls asking you for a ride either.
Whenever I tell a girl the story of how I crashed and burned at 100mph and got pretty fucked up and still ride, they are always impressed. It gives them some insight into your character and shows you are strong...........maybe stupid too! ;-)
My other hobby that pretty much consumes me is my racing. Its something that I am highly passionate about and my life revolves around it..............its a "lifestyle" and women just happen to find it pretty attractive. Women are impressed when a guy talks so passionately about something he is involved with. Again, its another hobby that is dangerous, fun, adventurous, dramatic, and your girl can stand right beside you in the spot light. I can sit there and tell you wild ass racing stories all night long. They involve fights, getting kicked out of race tracks, naked girls, crashes, wins, different places we've traveled to, famous drivers I've raced against, etc. You see, I've been there, done that and got the stories and scars to proove it! girls find that stuff interesting.
Whatever you choose, it needs to fit who you are. And it seems to be even better if its some hobby where the girl can be noticed along side you.
Girls seem to be pretty impressed with guys who play in bands. Playing rockband is cool, but playing in a real band is cooler! ;-)
Another reason to have some cool hobby that you are passionate about is because girls want to be able to tell their friends and family somthing impressive about you!
Find something you love to do, get involved in it, and get good at it. A cool side effect is when you have a hobby(attractive lifetstyle) that takes up a lot of your time, you don't make girls the center of your world. This makes those silly little hookers try even harder to grab your attention.
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by Guest » Thu Mar 26, 2009 3:05 pm
Good post Howie!! and man thats an awesom lifestyle you have there....Im inclined towards Dancing and Photography...after reading this post I really feel I should do something about it...may be take salsa lessons for starters...
Another thing I reallllly wanna do is skydive...I know Ratio is quite the pro at it....im not sure if I have the balls to do it as yet but will do it sooner or later...that would make a cool DHV story ;)
Another thing I reallllly wanna do is skydive...I know Ratio is quite the pro at it....im not sure if I have the balls to do it as yet but will do it sooner or later...that would make a cool DHV story ;)
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by Guest » Thu Mar 26, 2009 4:53 pm
That is a cool lifestyle Howie, but it is a cool lifestyl for Howie, not Urban Legend.
On being in a band, I would love to have a guitar and take up guitar lessons, but I lack the money to do that :(
Also, I have always wanted to learn how to play the violin, that is like my dream instrument right there, but again, lack the moola to do so.
I actually quite like to camp...
Is camping an attractive hobby?
And my car, 96 pontiac firebird, is the love of my life, although I would trade it for a newer model anyday.
Maybe because of my age, I should not be worrying so much on living an attractive lifesyle currenly as much as I should about living one in the future.
Idk.
Maybe when asked "what do you do?" I should just respond with something cocky.
On being in a band, I would love to have a guitar and take up guitar lessons, but I lack the money to do that :(
Also, I have always wanted to learn how to play the violin, that is like my dream instrument right there, but again, lack the moola to do so.
I actually quite like to camp...
Is camping an attractive hobby?
And my car, 96 pontiac firebird, is the love of my life, although I would trade it for a newer model anyday.
Maybe because of my age, I should not be worrying so much on living an attractive lifesyle currenly as much as I should about living one in the future.
Idk.
Maybe when asked "what do you do?" I should just respond with something cocky.
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by Guest » Thu Mar 26, 2009 6:08 pm
Ive been skydiving and yes it is a great DHV story and an even better one is having it all recorded on video to prove that you went, which is also a great way to get a girl to your house, "Hey I got a video of me skydiving, you should totally come over and watch it!" something like that
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by Guest » Thu Mar 26, 2009 6:16 pm
Learn game to be able to get what you want out of life.
Barter.
Use your personality to put you in a position to meet people that could teach you the things you want to learn without money. That is the true essence of "game", it's not all about the poon-tang.
If you see something you want to do then do it. My list includes:
-I have my real estate license
-I have my CDL and can drive a big truck.
-I have been to about 23 different states because of the CDL
-I have sold $250k properties and was in that "scene"
-I have studied business, architecture, sociology, and most recently law.
-I have played football for 9 years, played basketball for 2 and soccer for 2.
-I am currently working on my six pack, or basically just losing my gut.
-I am currently working on my 45 hours so that way I can go join a police force, possibly go all the way to swat.. which would be awesome.
-I play paintball, when I can, and would like to start up a team... a SWAT team that plays paintball would be pimp tight.
-I've got all my own camping gear.
-I am planning to add guns to my arsenal and plan on getting my CHL however if I am a police officer it invalidates that necessity.
-I would like to get my private pilots license.
-I did the whole "import racer scene". [link=http://c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/112/l_9444611a79e4434e8ae0ae320f9e5e8c.jpg](Picture here)[/link]
Accomplishments are good, but not the only way to establish an "attractive" lifestyle. If you want something go do it, it's that simple. And if you can't afford it, save up, barter, or get really good at framing. Sometimes sharing with people you meet that you've always wanted to play the violin, can open up possibilities for you to do so.
Attractive should mean what gives YOU value. What makes you, you.
"Like I always tell my clients - begin each day as if it were on purpose." - Hitch
Meet up with people that enjoy the same hobbies, or take up a new one that you've always wanted to try. Meetup.com is a good site for this. Use it. Like Anime? Join an anime club. Like rock band, find a rockband meet up. Like picking up chicks, find a ... you get the picture. Surround yourself by people who have violins, and be active and I can guarantee they will know where are will have something for you to pick up and use or purchase cheap. Mingle with people damnit. Get it?
Barter.
Use your personality to put you in a position to meet people that could teach you the things you want to learn without money. That is the true essence of "game", it's not all about the poon-tang.
If you see something you want to do then do it. My list includes:
-I have my real estate license
-I have my CDL and can drive a big truck.
-I have been to about 23 different states because of the CDL
-I have sold $250k properties and was in that "scene"
-I have studied business, architecture, sociology, and most recently law.
-I have played football for 9 years, played basketball for 2 and soccer for 2.
-I am currently working on my six pack, or basically just losing my gut.
-I am currently working on my 45 hours so that way I can go join a police force, possibly go all the way to swat.. which would be awesome.
-I play paintball, when I can, and would like to start up a team... a SWAT team that plays paintball would be pimp tight.
-I've got all my own camping gear.
-I am planning to add guns to my arsenal and plan on getting my CHL however if I am a police officer it invalidates that necessity.
-I would like to get my private pilots license.
-I did the whole "import racer scene". [link=http://c1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/112/l_9444611a79e4434e8ae0ae320f9e5e8c.jpg](Picture here)[/link]
Accomplishments are good, but not the only way to establish an "attractive" lifestyle. If you want something go do it, it's that simple. And if you can't afford it, save up, barter, or get really good at framing. Sometimes sharing with people you meet that you've always wanted to play the violin, can open up possibilities for you to do so.
Attractive should mean what gives YOU value. What makes you, you.
"Like I always tell my clients - begin each day as if it were on purpose." - Hitch
Meet up with people that enjoy the same hobbies, or take up a new one that you've always wanted to try. Meetup.com is a good site for this. Use it. Like Anime? Join an anime club. Like rock band, find a rockband meet up. Like picking up chicks, find a ... you get the picture. Surround yourself by people who have violins, and be active and I can guarantee they will know where are will have something for you to pick up and use or purchase cheap. Mingle with people damnit. Get it?
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by Guest » Thu Mar 26, 2009 6:18 pm
Where your at is one thing. Where your going is another. I focus on where I'm going, as we all go through ups and downs in life. When a girl asks, i say im a professional thumb wrestler, with a big grin. and challenge her to a match. If she asks what I really do, I tell her I co-own a business with an awesome biz partner.
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