Waking up this morning I can only find myself regretting the night before. Another sausage fest.
I don't really mind, I just have a major sticking point with keeping conversations rolling, even with guys.
Anyways. I have some questions for the veteran PUAs in this community. Everyone always says that girls are attracted to a guy with an attractive lifestyle. So I have some questions that will help me figure out some things to do on a day-to-day basis to help me achieve some of my goals.
Here they are in order of relevance:
1) What do you do on a daily basis that directly relates to pick-up? (e.g. shouting PIMP in the mirror, approaching)
2) What do you do on a daily basis that doesn't relate to pick-up, but you feel it helps you?
3) Do you always try to look groomed? Or just when you are sarging
4) What is your outlook on life? How do guys/girls/friends function under this vision? (for this question I'm kinda looking for what mindsets you have during your interactions with guys/girls/friends and how these mindsets differ.)
5) What do you do to groom on a daily basis?
6) What do you do to groom on special occasions?
7) How often do you get your hair cut? Buy new clothes?
8) If I have a hard time talking to people (NOT GIRLS, just friends and kids at my school) then what exercises/things can I do to improve this skill?
9) What is the one piece of advice that you think has helped you the most in pick-up? Why?
10) Drugs/Alcohol/performance boosters in general, whaddya think?
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by Guest » Thu Mar 12, 2009 11:42 pm
1) Go out for at least half an hour each day. Usually to the same cafe, hookah lounge, or popcorn shop I usually go to. It keeps me social, and just visiting the same place regularly makes people comfortable with you, and so it's social circle for me to approach in these places, not a cold approach.
2) I figured out my purpose (for now), so I spend every day living that purpose. You'll know it when you find it. Also, meditating for 30 minutes each morning makes the rest of the day a LOT easier.
3) Only if I'm going out. There's something odd about going grocery shopping, seeing a cute girl, looking like shit, and her seeing that you look like shit, but had the cajones to approach just the same. It's actually more attractive to do that than get all gussied up for some groceries.
4) We're all human, first and foremost. Everyone likes feeling like someone gives a damn, so if you're that person who actually does, people really appreciate it.
5) Shower, brush teeth like a maniac (personal quirk, maybe, I HATE yellow teeth)deodorant, cologne. I've been blessed without an abundance of facial hair, so shaving daily is unnecessary for me.
6) Special cologne.
7) Cut hair when I have more bad hair days than good hair days (short hair pretty much looks good on every guy. Look at Hollywood...). I buy new clothes as I can afford them.
8) Talk to people paid to be nice to you, ie store clerks, cashiers, wait staff, etc.
9) When in doubt, act normal. If a girl gets creeped out, ask boring questions, ie "Who are you, what do you do, where are you from, etc" Doing this makes you seem normal after making a social blunder.
10) I drink when I'm at bars, or I feel like I'm taking advantage of people. I also drink a lot of energy drinks when I go out, because my preferred method tends to be higher energy game. I don't usually go for one night stands, but if I did, I wouldn't drink when I go out, alcohol kills my performance. Drugs... never while in a social situation, but that could just be me.
2) I figured out my purpose (for now), so I spend every day living that purpose. You'll know it when you find it. Also, meditating for 30 minutes each morning makes the rest of the day a LOT easier.
3) Only if I'm going out. There's something odd about going grocery shopping, seeing a cute girl, looking like shit, and her seeing that you look like shit, but had the cajones to approach just the same. It's actually more attractive to do that than get all gussied up for some groceries.
4) We're all human, first and foremost. Everyone likes feeling like someone gives a damn, so if you're that person who actually does, people really appreciate it.
5) Shower, brush teeth like a maniac (personal quirk, maybe, I HATE yellow teeth)deodorant, cologne. I've been blessed without an abundance of facial hair, so shaving daily is unnecessary for me.
6) Special cologne.
7) Cut hair when I have more bad hair days than good hair days (short hair pretty much looks good on every guy. Look at Hollywood...). I buy new clothes as I can afford them.
8) Talk to people paid to be nice to you, ie store clerks, cashiers, wait staff, etc.
9) When in doubt, act normal. If a girl gets creeped out, ask boring questions, ie "Who are you, what do you do, where are you from, etc" Doing this makes you seem normal after making a social blunder.
10) I drink when I'm at bars, or I feel like I'm taking advantage of people. I also drink a lot of energy drinks when I go out, because my preferred method tends to be higher energy game. I don't usually go for one night stands, but if I did, I wouldn't drink when I go out, alcohol kills my performance. Drugs... never while in a social situation, but that could just be me.
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by Guest » Fri Mar 13, 2009 12:48 pm
1) What do you do on a daily basis that directly relates to pick-up? (e.g. shouting PIMP in the mirror, approaching) [b]Talking to hired guns. Talk to any and every body, and remember that when in venue you should be selective.[/b]
2) What do you do on a daily basis that doesn't relate to pick-up, but you feel it helps you? [b]Some of this might seem common sense, but, shower, shave and generally make sure I am "pimped" out. Stand up straight, eat right throughout the day. Talk to people I know I don't have to try to impress or have to pretend around.[/b]
3) Do you always try to look groomed? Or just when you are sarging
[b]You should always be groomed, lol but lately i've only been doing it when I sarge[/b]
4) What is your outlook on life? How do guys/girls/friends function under this vision? (for this question I'm kinda looking for what mindsets you have during your interactions with guys/girls/friends and how these mindsets differ.) [b] I dislike everyone equally at this moment, except some. I am struggling with some internal conflicts and views on society. I fail to see where the promotion of a society is to the benefit of individuals. All that aside though, if I could get past these feelings life should be filled with as many joys that you can pack into it, there are always going to be people to try and bring you down. I guess that tends to make me skeptical of people, which is why I probably ignore the ones that aren't blatantly going in a similar direction as myself. But as you can see the answer to this question is as emotional and thought provoking as "What is the meaning to life?" for me. Depending on which mood I am in, I can either tolerate people and be a somewhat good PUA, or I can be full of disgust for the human race. [/b]
5) What do you do to groom on a daily basis? [b]Shit, shower, shave every other day[/b]
6) What do you do to groom on special occasions? [b] trim the bush at least back to the taint :)[/b]
7) How often do you get your hair cut? Buy new clothes? [b]Shave every other dayish, new clothes: Ideally you want to already have a wardrobe that represents who you are so that you can just add a piece here or there, I have a mix between business attire, suits, ties, etc.. then I have my casual and my workout wardrobes. [/b]
8) If I have a hard time talking to people (NOT GIRLS, just friends and kids at my school) then what exercises/things can I do to improve this skill? [b]Focus on just getting one smile, laugh, or chuckle from people. That skill will be the foundation for anything else you will do in pick up. Make it a point to talk to at least 3 DIFFERENT people every day and try and get them to do one of those things. [/b]
9) What is the one piece of advice that you think has helped you the most in pick-up? Why? [b]"Fuck it. Do it." When you are having trouble deciding whether to approach or not, fuck it, do it. If you can't decide whether or not you should lean it to kiss her, fuck, do it. If you are having a hard time deciding whether or not to put your arm around her, fuck it, do it. If you can't make up your mind on trying to get her to bounce, fuck it, do it. [/b]
10) Drugs/Alcohol/performance boosters in general, whaddya think? [b]Drugs, not so much, Alcohol. Man up cowboy you're at a bar, and as Clint Eastwood would have said, "This is a bar, you'll have a drink." performance boosters.... Like viagra? sure why not. [/b]
2) What do you do on a daily basis that doesn't relate to pick-up, but you feel it helps you? [b]Some of this might seem common sense, but, shower, shave and generally make sure I am "pimped" out. Stand up straight, eat right throughout the day. Talk to people I know I don't have to try to impress or have to pretend around.[/b]
3) Do you always try to look groomed? Or just when you are sarging
[b]You should always be groomed, lol but lately i've only been doing it when I sarge[/b]
4) What is your outlook on life? How do guys/girls/friends function under this vision? (for this question I'm kinda looking for what mindsets you have during your interactions with guys/girls/friends and how these mindsets differ.) [b] I dislike everyone equally at this moment, except some. I am struggling with some internal conflicts and views on society. I fail to see where the promotion of a society is to the benefit of individuals. All that aside though, if I could get past these feelings life should be filled with as many joys that you can pack into it, there are always going to be people to try and bring you down. I guess that tends to make me skeptical of people, which is why I probably ignore the ones that aren't blatantly going in a similar direction as myself. But as you can see the answer to this question is as emotional and thought provoking as "What is the meaning to life?" for me. Depending on which mood I am in, I can either tolerate people and be a somewhat good PUA, or I can be full of disgust for the human race. [/b]
5) What do you do to groom on a daily basis? [b]Shit, shower, shave every other day[/b]
6) What do you do to groom on special occasions? [b] trim the bush at least back to the taint :)[/b]
7) How often do you get your hair cut? Buy new clothes? [b]Shave every other dayish, new clothes: Ideally you want to already have a wardrobe that represents who you are so that you can just add a piece here or there, I have a mix between business attire, suits, ties, etc.. then I have my casual and my workout wardrobes. [/b]
8) If I have a hard time talking to people (NOT GIRLS, just friends and kids at my school) then what exercises/things can I do to improve this skill? [b]Focus on just getting one smile, laugh, or chuckle from people. That skill will be the foundation for anything else you will do in pick up. Make it a point to talk to at least 3 DIFFERENT people every day and try and get them to do one of those things. [/b]
9) What is the one piece of advice that you think has helped you the most in pick-up? Why? [b]"Fuck it. Do it." When you are having trouble deciding whether to approach or not, fuck it, do it. If you can't decide whether or not you should lean it to kiss her, fuck, do it. If you are having a hard time deciding whether or not to put your arm around her, fuck it, do it. If you can't make up your mind on trying to get her to bounce, fuck it, do it. [/b]
10) Drugs/Alcohol/performance boosters in general, whaddya think? [b]Drugs, not so much, Alcohol. Man up cowboy you're at a bar, and as Clint Eastwood would have said, "This is a bar, you'll have a drink." performance boosters.... Like viagra? sure why not. [/b]
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