Would you approach?

[Guest]

Hmmm, I have been thinking lately. I don't approach as much as I would like to. I have noticed that most of my cold approaches I have to get ready for. As in I drink a bit first, I either have people pushing me or I have to push myself, kinda psyche myself up in a way (try and get into state). At school, I seem to mostly go after ones in my classes, so that would be a warm approach. What do I do if I see something I want in say the library? Well, I usually do nothing. It got me thinking, what if I seen my ultimate dream girl (Meagan Fox) in the grocery store, what would I do? Being honest, probably nothing. I know this is all me and my fault. It's mental inner game stuff I need to work on, I'm not asking for advice on what to do (I know I just need to say fuck it and approach EVERYTHING, not 1 in 6 like I'm doing), just taking a poll and seeing if others have the same issue. The issue of only approaching sometimes, and skipping sets that you would love to be talking to and then later saying "damn, that was dumb, I could have done that".

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[Guest]

I would now, if you would have asked me even 6 months ago, I would have answered probably not.

[Guest]

If I feel it, I go. Simple.

[Guest]

Yes everyone loves that girl.

I actually answered maybe. I too pass a shit load of sets that I later say umm I'm a homo. Just/Us I remember one vividly a few weeks ago at RA. That hottie little blonde that was pushing HB9 status with ease. Still kicking myself for that one since she clearly wasn't a barfly whore.

Next time you see a set you want to talk to just say fuck it and approach.

[Guest]

Problem with this poll is that a lot of people will say they will but in reality they won't. I said yes because I just got off work and work puts me in a good state (I know that's kinda wierd but I work at a Pizza Hut and absolutely love it there). I am in a good state right now, but before work, I probably would not approach my dream girl.

p.s. Megan Fox is soooo hot! She moves the movie Transformers from the good movie category to the must see category :)
I believe that is every nerds dream right there

[Guest]

brunette hair with light colored eyes, my type. i usually go for that when i am at the mall. if i ever see a girl looking like that at the mall by herseelf, i'd walk up to her and tell her how cute she is like every other girl i have told. if she is in a group, i would say you guys looked like a fun/cool group so i had to come over say hi.

[Guest]

I voted Yes. For all girls who are alone I have no problem at all approaching. But the trouble comes when they're two sets, or three sets, or mixed sets, or a bunch of people watching - that's when I get all scared and shit.

Something I do is, if I'm with a wing, I usually imagine them going up to the girl(s) and then talking to them with great success. If I'm solo then I pretend a random guy around me approached. Then I get all pissed and I think, wtf, that should have been me. Then I go do it. (Usually.)

Another cool thing to do is, right when you see a set, whatever you do DON'T pretend that you didn't notice them. I do this a lot and it drives me nuts. Instead, keep looking at them and immediately force your feet to walk in that direction. While your mind is still deciding whether to approach or not, you're suddenly right in front of them and you're forced to open or else look like a total sissy.

Iono, just putting out some random thoughts. Take from it what you will!

[Guest]

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brunette hair with light colored eyes, my type.
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and late 30ies....lol...cougar lover :0))

well thats my type too somtimes...loads of cougars like this at work ;)

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EDIT: BTW I voted No cause I'm not quite there yet...these days I do open girls at the mall with my fav direct liner "I saw you n thought your really adorable so I just had to come say Hie" :)

[Guest]

i'd make my way over there. talking to a bunch of groups before i got there. not for long, just a high five and maybe chew the fat for a min(hopefully she doesnt leave where she is by the time i get to her) if i make eye contact with her, thats fine. Style talks about running really short game on little groups in order to keep you from looking like you went out of your way to talk to her. when i get to her, maybe a high five or a kiss on the cheek. I would treat her just as i do her friends. Its not like i want her to think im better than her or whatever you might think, but to show her that: even though she is a star, i still see her as a human. I wont treat her like a star so i hope she will not treat me like a loser fan. Bla bla bla isolate her. Bla bla bla whatever else =)

[Guest]

Honestly, it depends on how I'm dressed...

If I'm sporting the PUA look, then I approach regardless. If I'm sporting the 'office look' then I would think twice.