Dallas PUA

I will sometimes sit here and think about what successful people around me do. I am not afraid to admit that every single successful idea I have had I got from someone else. I would see someone making money with a certain idea and would say I can do that. And I did. The same can be said with watching how naturals or anyone successful with women and see what they do. How they act. How they present themselves to the girl and the world. What they say. Their demeanor. Their confidence.

I can tell you right now one of biggest differences I see between a natural and an ordinary joe blow is their sense of entitlement. Guys who are naturals usually found success early on with girls. It just became ingrained at some point that they could get women. This leads to them thinking and knowing that they can get a girl. They don’t question if a girl likes them. She does. It is his reality.

I was having a conversation with one of my non community natural friends yesterday. I was letting him know that I was having problems with HBTC and he said the most relevant thing anyone has told me regarding her. I told him how she is the hottest girl of my life. He said yes now that you have gotten her you can get many more just like her or better. I just let this resonate for a while because what he said was so profound. And keep in mind this coming from a natural who has pulled some extremely beautiful women in his day. He gave me advice that turned my entire state of mind around.

In case you are not following here is my point in black and white. You should be watching everything happening around you. If you are out at a bar it is ok to just sit there and observe. Watch other guys in the community or just try to find the naturals in the bar. There is so much to learn from doing this. Even if you can’t hear a word they are saying you should be able to pick up on body language and the status of the interaction. Is she leaning into him? Or is he leaning into her? What kind of Kino is happening if any? Wait did you see that. She just brushed his forearm and then swept her hair back.

Lastly I want you to feel like you can pull any girl in the venue. Whether this is true or not makes no difference. It is the projection you will make to everyone in there. Even if you come off as a cocky conceded asshole it is far superior than coming off as a worthless nobody who deserves nothing in life.

Success is right over there. Do you want it?

Would'nt it be fun to have a chick hotter than this one that did'nt constantly shit test you? Every LTR I've ever had involved a "honeymoon" period. From what I've picked up, yall skipped this part and moved straight into fights that usually take place months to get to.

With that said, take your buddies insight, next hbtc, upgrade and have fun, not headaches. Unless your into drama, shit tests, and more drama, I dont see the upside. Is this really what you want, because I dont see it getting easier but harder.

Your buddy is so right. Approaching hotter women is easier when you've dated one. After all, you deserve it.

interesting post.

i agree with the last paragraph about being confident, women love men who are confident; they find it sexy.