How you answer "How many people have you slept with"

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I don't know...

Why not just answer the exact same way. Hasn't it worked like a charm every time?

She might eventually push the subject again and then you can either lie or be truthful. I don't like to lie so I would say answer honestly. Of course my number isn't crazy high although I do struggle with remembering the exact number.

Unless you have been with triple digits then you might want to just never answer. And even then some girls won't freak out at this number.

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I usually say something like:

"Besides you? Only two, but I don't think my mom and sister count..."

Then, I drop the issue altogether.

IF they press it, that's when I get a little rhetorical on them.

Bull Run: "Do you enjoy having sex with me?"
HB: "Yes." They always say 'yes,' they really have no choice.
Bull Run: "Well then, what does it matter? I've had enough sex so that I could learn to please you. The number doesn't matter, it's the way I make you feel that matters. It's not an issue unless you make it one."

I've never had anyone press it any further than that. The fact is that if you display any level of prowess in bed, women are pretty much going to assume that you've been with a lot of women. Her asking is really a shit test of sorts, which don't EVER go away even when you're in an LTR. If you make a big deal out of it, she will. I would NEVER tell a woman how many women I've been with, shit I don't even know my 'number' any more anyway.

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I avoid this question...I'll answer it if we're maybe in a committed relationship for a few months or so...and then I default to 10. Nothing good will come of divulging that information.

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I agree with Smirks, nothing good comes from that discussion.

So if the standard shit test responses don't work...
-"you mean....this week? "
-the carry the 7 one etc...

and they keep pressing the issue, just say "look i don't keep count, we all have pasts, i'm here with you now" yada yada

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whats this 'carry the 7' thing?

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And if you are going to default a number make it some random odd number like:

Including you 14.

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whats this 'carry the 7' thing?
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Act like you're doing a math problem in your head, but you say it out loud.

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Just say, "I dont keep count." I'll never answer this question truthfully again (read I lost tail once cuz of the truth). Less history more mystery. What if her number is higher than yours? Its not good to lie (pft), but I would here. Nothing good can come from this question, avoid it like the plague, or the clap!

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This is good stuff. I've had a few women ask me this and didn't know how to deal with it.

A lot of people just say, when shit tested, just "Be yourself" or "Be confident".

All the confidence in the world isn't gonna help you beat this shit test. It's a common shit test and having memorized "lines" for some of these tests is not a bad thing.