5 ways to “WOW” women with your daytime approach

[Grungey10]

Have you ever had the feeling that you’re really having
the awesome vibe going on with a woman, but when you try
to escalate things (Get her number, schedule a date, or
get her back to your place) she says no?

Well you’re not alone. I was stuck in that same rut a
couple of years ago. It can be frustrating. Sometimes you
may even ask yourself why you keep screwing up.

The good news is that it’s not bad luck. It can be fixed
most of the time. I’ve picked out some of the issues that
need to be addressed when you’re doing daytime pick ups.

If you’re still not getting the results that you want then
you might want to read this article over and over again.

All these tips are geared especially for day game

I don’t want to keep you waiting, so let’s get down to the
fun stuff

Don’t be creepy- Simple yet overlooked factor. Don’t put up a
front and start being the “Pick up guy” or even worse “The
Desperate Stalker”. It just won’t work. Just relax, take a
deep breathe, and act normal. That’s the secret. Act normal.

Picking up girls is less fancy than it really seems. First
step is learning how to be social. Second is to be comfortable
with being social. Third is being normal. Fourth is never
forgetting the third rule.

Create the “Our world” vibe- You want to get her from “we just
met” to “I feel like I’ve known this guy” mentality as fast as
you can. Once you get to this point, you can easily get to know
her and the other way around. The faster you can create the
“Our world” vibe, the better off you are in the long run.

I’ve discovered a couple of techniques you can do right from
the beginning, in order to create this kind of environment.
A couple of them are introducing you right off the bat,
regression, and effective bond building tactics.

Respect her personal space- She needs to be comfortable at
all times. Meeting women during the day time is totally
different if you were to meet them in bars and clubs. There
are several things that you need to adjust and one of them
is personal space.

You got to respect her personal space.
Don’t sit too close to her too soon, it’s uncomfortable.
Heck I feel uncomfortable when people do that to me.

Gear it down when it comes to touching her- Another area
that you need to focus on. When you’re in bars and clubs, you
can escalate things sexually almost right away. When you’re
outside of bars and clubs there’s a huge trust factor that
you need to take in consideration.

They don’t know you. You’re a stranger so just be very casual
with the touching. You should touch her just enough to
communicate that you’re a touchy feely person.

Always lead- You got to be leading the interaction at all
times. It’s one thing to know how to lead and another to know
when to lead. You always have to be pushing the interaction
forward. Pick up is like playing a video game; you have to go
from stage to stage. You don’t want to be stuck in stage 1
forever.

It’s very similar to sales; the only way to get the
sale is to ask for it. Just go for the close (whether it’s
getting her number, getting her on a date on the spot, or going
for the kiss) in all you interactions. It really makes a
big difference.

Let me ask ya this…
Have you ever seen a pick up gone wrong?

Let me suggest this…
Don’t be one of those guys that screw up. Ask a female friend
the things that make her uncomfortable when she’s talking to
a guy. Then make sure never to do those things.

Any comments? Suggestions? Shoot me a quick line at my e-mail.

-Grungey

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[greenboy]

good stuff.but not really sure what your trying to say about 'have you ever seen a pick up go wrong'?because yes i have done!

[Real]

i read ur post.
there is no clear how-to...
yes, it is important to be normal and not weird her out.
kino should not creep her out or bring her friends to protect her frm u.
i always get trust.
the thing that i dont agree with though is that u ask the girl to tell u when she was uncomfy... i hate to say it but their answer will NOT be right.
i've asked thousands of girls for their opinions and such. i think it is better to watch the way they respond rather than "listen" to their answer.
i believe that ppl wont know what makes them uncomfy and they will not be able to tell u.

oh yeah and the vibe thing, i give out a normal vibe when i talk to her and when i want to venue shift i get myself into a "hurried state". it always works