A Universal Mindset
Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2009 9:04 pm Guys I have just officially come to understand what it means to say "all girls are the same". Beyond that I have just made the official move into that mindset. This is a highly controversial statement/mindset. People all over, Especially girls will deny this. you might hear people say things like "i'm not like that,"or" no, this girl's different". But we know that all girls are emotional thinkers, and with a closer examination we know that all girls have the same needs. But we interpret their needs differently due to the way they present theirselves on their personal quests to fulfill them.
a girls most basic needs, outside of basic human needs(food, clothes, shelter), include finding/ being loved, being moved(struck with passion or emotion), and being sexual. What defines a girls shell or personality depends on how she percieves these needs or prioritizes her values. Think of each need as a dimmer switch. They are there but what setting are they on?
Anyways what brings me to this long pushed-aside mindset, is that i realixed that I personally have for too long given certain women a mental advantage of sorts by labeling them as the exception to the rule. Female bosses, co-workers, established women, "classy" women, and especially women i have known for a bit of time. i masked these labels with what society might call courtesy or respect. Most recent case, I ran into a girl I have known since 3rd grade. Honestly thought I would never see her again, and randomly ran into her on saturday. before i knew that i knew her I was running attraction game and had begun subtle sexual escalation. I t was hooking. But once I found out about the connection or our past history, I began unconsciously giving her value/ lebeling her as a girl I should "respect" by not gaming. then she began losing the interest.
So in all honesty I now fully understand and adopt the mindset that all girls are the same. basically the only difference in girls oop systems is the speed at which you lead the seduction. unless your game is solid enough to lead them all at the same pace... something to think about ;)
a girls most basic needs, outside of basic human needs(food, clothes, shelter), include finding/ being loved, being moved(struck with passion or emotion), and being sexual. What defines a girls shell or personality depends on how she percieves these needs or prioritizes her values. Think of each need as a dimmer switch. They are there but what setting are they on?
Anyways what brings me to this long pushed-aside mindset, is that i realixed that I personally have for too long given certain women a mental advantage of sorts by labeling them as the exception to the rule. Female bosses, co-workers, established women, "classy" women, and especially women i have known for a bit of time. i masked these labels with what society might call courtesy or respect. Most recent case, I ran into a girl I have known since 3rd grade. Honestly thought I would never see her again, and randomly ran into her on saturday. before i knew that i knew her I was running attraction game and had begun subtle sexual escalation. I t was hooking. But once I found out about the connection or our past history, I began unconsciously giving her value/ lebeling her as a girl I should "respect" by not gaming. then she began losing the interest.
So in all honesty I now fully understand and adopt the mindset that all girls are the same. basically the only difference in girls oop systems is the speed at which you lead the seduction. unless your game is solid enough to lead them all at the same pace... something to think about ;)