Sleeping in Your Car Blows Goats
Posted: Fri Dec 05, 2008 11:27 amGee Golly...My neck hurts.
Before I act and do something stupid I figured I would get some suggestions here first.
Last night I went out with this girl. We started hot and heavy about 2 weeks ago and couldn't get enough of each other. Spent at least 4-5 days/nights together over a week period. Then the holiday came up and she was out of town. This week I have purposely avoided her until last night. We went to the Mavs game and then to Kinki afterwards. I got super boozed up and she was at least 3/4 boozed as I was.
The whole night things went awesome. I threw her up against the wall outside the stadium and the fans were cheering us. While waiting to leave the parking garage we had a good time in the car. Things were fine at Kinki and even on the way back to the car after we left I threw her on a car only to have her throw me on the same car and get on top. Sorry to anyone who owned that car.
Fast forward just 10 minutes and I am grabbing my clothes and walking out of her house. WTF!!!!!
Her and I both have what I would consider strong personalities in a relationship. For example she will say: Don't tell me what to do. All the time. Even over little stuff. From our talk it sounds like most of the guys she has dated have given into her. You know go along with whatever she says, follow, and agree with her on everything. One of the reasons we get along so well is because I purposely disagree with her on even little shit. She likes it.
So here is what I think happened last night but I was drunk and could be completely wrong.
As we were pulling into her APT complex there were no parking spots. So she decides to park in front of someones garage. This is pretty much an automatic tow if the neighbor calls the tow company. And you know damn well we were both gonna sleep in well past whatever time your typical person goes to work. So I was pretty adamant on her not parking there. I was just trying to look out for her but she pretty much told me to fuck off she was parking there. At this point I was fine with it afterall it is her money and she can get towed.
We get upstairs I change she does some girly shit in the bathroom and I am prying my eyes open not to fall asleep on the couch. UGH I wish I would have just passed out. I get up and try to talk to her and next thing I know I am grabbing my shit and leaving. I have a very reactive personality and tend to take things to the extreme. So the correct move there was to either lay down on the couch and pass out so things could be smoothed out in the morning with clearer minds. Or at the very least stay and talk with her in person until things works out or she actually asks me to leave.
I write all of this because I would like to work things out with this girl. I have been in this game for one year and she is the only girl I have met that I actually like. The first girl I could actually see myself dating. That means a lot to me and it is something I just don't want to walk away from.
How would you handle this? I would rather handle it sooner than later. I hate dwelling on things. Plus we had a double date set up with one of my good friends Sat night. Since I don't see him very often that will be upsetting to bail.
Before I act and do something stupid I figured I would get some suggestions here first.
Last night I went out with this girl. We started hot and heavy about 2 weeks ago and couldn't get enough of each other. Spent at least 4-5 days/nights together over a week period. Then the holiday came up and she was out of town. This week I have purposely avoided her until last night. We went to the Mavs game and then to Kinki afterwards. I got super boozed up and she was at least 3/4 boozed as I was.
The whole night things went awesome. I threw her up against the wall outside the stadium and the fans were cheering us. While waiting to leave the parking garage we had a good time in the car. Things were fine at Kinki and even on the way back to the car after we left I threw her on a car only to have her throw me on the same car and get on top. Sorry to anyone who owned that car.
Fast forward just 10 minutes and I am grabbing my clothes and walking out of her house. WTF!!!!!
Her and I both have what I would consider strong personalities in a relationship. For example she will say: Don't tell me what to do. All the time. Even over little stuff. From our talk it sounds like most of the guys she has dated have given into her. You know go along with whatever she says, follow, and agree with her on everything. One of the reasons we get along so well is because I purposely disagree with her on even little shit. She likes it.
So here is what I think happened last night but I was drunk and could be completely wrong.
As we were pulling into her APT complex there were no parking spots. So she decides to park in front of someones garage. This is pretty much an automatic tow if the neighbor calls the tow company. And you know damn well we were both gonna sleep in well past whatever time your typical person goes to work. So I was pretty adamant on her not parking there. I was just trying to look out for her but she pretty much told me to fuck off she was parking there. At this point I was fine with it afterall it is her money and she can get towed.
We get upstairs I change she does some girly shit in the bathroom and I am prying my eyes open not to fall asleep on the couch. UGH I wish I would have just passed out. I get up and try to talk to her and next thing I know I am grabbing my shit and leaving. I have a very reactive personality and tend to take things to the extreme. So the correct move there was to either lay down on the couch and pass out so things could be smoothed out in the morning with clearer minds. Or at the very least stay and talk with her in person until things works out or she actually asks me to leave.
I write all of this because I would like to work things out with this girl. I have been in this game for one year and she is the only girl I have met that I actually like. The first girl I could actually see myself dating. That means a lot to me and it is something I just don't want to walk away from.
How would you handle this? I would rather handle it sooner than later. I hate dwelling on things. Plus we had a double date set up with one of my good friends Sat night. Since I don't see him very often that will be upsetting to bail.