WTF?

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I debated where to post this because it is kind of a field report but that is not the main point. I have not been gaming as consistently as I did from May-Sept due to various reasons (e.g. fuck buddies, new friends, getting too drunk) but I have still been getting laid fairly consistently.

Anyway, I have been gaming 1-2 days per week with an average of 3 or 4 approaches. For some reason, almost every number I get during the dayends up flaking on me. I have a much lower flake rate with night game. I talked some with Carmel and I am pretty sure I don't have enough comfort but it is pretty difficult to get through all the stages quick enough because people always have somewhere to be on campus.

I have also recently been approaching more when I go out. I got a couple numbers last week which was encouraging (bc I feel rusty) but I went out Thursday and did poorly. I approached 3 sets and all of them were pretty hot girls. For some reason I got blown out of all three sets. In my mind, I am doing the same shit I was doing this summer that led to some great nights but I think it may be possible that I am doing something wrong that I am not aware of (i.e. body language, delivery, etc). To top off my Thursday night, I ran into a girl I have been out with twice and fooled around with a bit and she saw me and reacted like "oh shit it's Sal." Then she walked towards me and I asked if she was drunk and she said, "Yeah, I'm gonna keep walking." Very strange.

Also, this may just be in my head, but I swear one of the sets I approached the minute I used my opinion opener one of them laughed in a way that made me think she knew I was trying to game them indirectly. My standard opener is one I came up with but at the same time with PUA2 on VH1, I think some girls may be on the look out for guys who come up and ask questions to strangers. I am thinking about just going direct for awhile.

Sorry for the long post but all these issues are really strange and confusing to me right now. I could use some opinions.

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when my shit doesn't work right, I read through mystery method again.

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it was just one bad night and he still got a bj, you cant expect every set to go perfect. He just got into his own head

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it all comes back to value, at some point when talking to someone you ask yourself, what value do they add to my life.

besides being tom cruise hot, try revamping your attraction game.

night closes i have found, are based alot around looks, day time closes are based around the percieved value they feel they get from you. my thoughts at least.

answer this, what could possibly make a greek member jump ship to climb into yours?

at the end of that youll find the answer you seek.

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I do think it is something with my attraction stuff. I tend to like to talk about things I find interesting/make observations about the set or other people. This works a lot of the time, but it bores girls some of the time. My new goal is to get them laughing within 30 sec-1 min.

I also agree that I am probably reading a bit too much into it but it can never hurt to examine where you are going wrong and where you can improve. Thanks guys!