Dallas PUA

It seems like day game is very sporadic. It is here and there. It isn't like a club where there are hot girls everywhere. All I can think of is hanging out at a coffee shop or mall or something all day and hoping to bump into a few. Do you guys know of any good spots for day game? I will be 21 in about 3 weeks, so most of the bars and stuff you guys like to go to I can't get into yet. I hate club game, the music is so damn loud you can't talk. I would love to find like a chill spot or lounge where you can actually talk to people. My cold approach is lacking skill, so I really want to get this handled, but it seems so hard to find sets in the day (or maybe I am being too picky?) But I need to get this going. For now my college campus seems like the best bet.

you said you are in college...why not work your day game at school?

say inbetween classes, go to the food court, or the gym or wherever..places where people usually gather...or maybe a local coffee shop/restaurant near campus..

that way it doesnt seem like youre on the prowl..that will only dlv...

You're acting like a faggot. How can you have "one-itis" when you're haven't even closed it down yet. Seal the deal, or move on next her. If you really want to make this chick move, game another girl in class and see what happens. College doesn't last forever; if you don't hit that shit, I will.

As for day game...you're in college. Why are you so scared of opening in day game? I think its the easiest approach because its genuine, and if a girl throws her bitch shield, its out of line. This is why I always use situational openers, and never any canned shit because I feel like it compromises my integrity...and because they openers I use are so fucked up that no one else would use them because they're the stupidest shit you've heard in your life.

I started day gaming by talking to girls who worked wherever I was cruising...because they have to talk to you and when they're stuck you can really see what works and doesn't because they can't leave or blow you off. Remember dude, you don't have to SNL every chick you speak to, so if they take it too far, that's her problem and not yours.

Here's a solid opener for retail day game:
"hey, do you have XYZ with this/is this any good?"
"I don't work here."
"Yes you do/are you sure?/why are you jacking with me?/is my money not good enough? (make sure and smile after she feels a little tension)"
Now you've already opened with solid shit, negged her, almost subconscious DHV, and now you can start talking about the product in question with some bullshit story and if she reciperocates, you know it hooked.

Tons of hotties at northpark mall on the weekend of all ages. But yeah you got all the girls you need right on campus no real need to go elsewhere ;) and at the college you've got easy natural openers... you're gonna feel more approach anxiety if you were to go elsewhere where you don't have something in common right off the bat.

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You're acting like a faggot. How can you have "one-itis" when you're haven't even closed it down yet. Seal the deal, or move on next her. If you really want to make this chick move, game another girl in class and see what happens. College doesn't last forever; if you don't hit that shit, I will.

As for day game...you're in college. Why are you so scared of opening in day game? I think its the easiest approach because its genuine, and if a girl throws her bitch shield, its out of line. This is why I always use situational openers, and never any canned shit because I feel like it compromises my integrity...and because they openers I use are so fucked up that no one else would use them because they're the stupidest shit you've heard in your life.

I started day gaming by talking to girls who worked wherever I was cruising...because they have to talk to you and when they're stuck you can really see what works and doesn't because they can't leave or blow you off. Remember dude, you don't have to SNL every chick you speak to, so if they take it too far, that's her problem and not yours.

Here's a solid opener for retail day game:
"hey, do you have XYZ with this/is this any good?"
"I don't work here."
"Yes you do/are you sure?/why are you jacking with me?/is my money not good enough? (make sure and smile after she feels a little tension)"
Now you've already opened with solid shit, negged her, almost subconscious DHV, and now you can start talking about the product in question with some bullshit story and if she reciperocates, you know it hooked.
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Ya, you are right. I am acting stupid (I edited the post so it wasn't so lame). I guess I am just more worried about day game because it doesn't seem as natural as night game. But that is all in my head, I know that and it is just approach anxiety talking. I think aa is probably one of my biggest problems. Logically I know its not a big deal, but when the time comes I just get super fucked up nervous.

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You're acting like a faggot. How can you have "one-itis" when you're haven't even closed it down yet. Seal the deal, or move on next her. If you really want to make this chick move, game another girl in class and see what happens. College doesn't last forever; if you don't hit that shit, I will.

As for day game...you're in college. Why are you so scared of opening in day game? I think its the easiest approach because its genuine, and if a girl throws her bitch shield, its out of line. This is why I always use situational openers, and never any canned shit because I feel like it compromises my integrity...and because they openers I use are so fucked up that no one else would use them because they're the stupidest shit you've heard in your life.

I started day gaming by talking to girls who worked wherever I was cruising...because they have to talk to you and when they're stuck you can really see what works and doesn't because they can't leave or blow you off. Remember dude, you don't have to SNL every chick you speak to, so if they take it too far, that's her problem and not yours.

Here's a solid opener for retail day game:
"hey, do you have XYZ with this/is this any good?"
"I don't work here."
"Yes you do/are you sure?/why are you jacking with me?/is my money not good enough? (make sure and smile after she feels a little tension)"
Now you've already opened with solid shit, negged her, almost subconscious DHV, and now you can start talking about the product in question with some bullshit story and if she reciperocates, you know it hooked.
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Ya, you are right. I am acting stupid (I edited the post so it wasn't so lame). I guess I am just more worried about day game because it doesn't seem as natural as night game. But that is all in my head, I know that and it is just approach anxiety talking. I think aa is probably one of my biggest problems. Logically I know its not a big deal, but when the time comes I just get super fucked up nervous.

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not every set you walk from is a failed SNL attempt. Don't you genuinely want to speak to these girls? I have problems thinking attractive women are higher in the social hierarchy than me, and I have to remind myself that I have social value. Its totally natural to talk to these girls and pursue companionship, however its easy to internalize the logic that you may not like what you see. So while you're opening them, building value and trust, they can fuck it up to...and I promise you that women take that shit seriously because in the sea of douche-bags, they want a guy who doesn't fit the douche-bag mold.

Recap of what I do when I warm up my soul for a set:
I'm valuable enough that she wants to avoid fucking it up
I may not like what I see
I don't have to find the love of my life in this set, just see if she's worthy of my verbalized neuro-chemical transmission
She wants my wiener
I'm probably the best looking dude on earth


food for thought...
[b]When was the last time you left a set because you didn't like what you saw?[/b]

i just want to point out that day game isnt a seperate venue. Day and Night game was coined because women, when in a party mode, act differently, and since that often happens at night, club sarging or "night game" was used to simplify the explanation process.

Day game is really anything that is not club, bar, or party sarging and can be done wherever. Any place you go during this time is day sarging. The one caveat is that you HAVE to put yourself around people and be in a talkative mood.

have laundry to do? go to a laundrymat in a college area instead.
have to spend time on the internet researching, go to a coffee house or sme other place where girls hang around.
dont wash your car at home, go to the car wash, and pull the change for a 20 routine, girls wash their cars sometimes too.
shopping, instead of once a week change to daily, if your schedule allows it


dont change your normal daily doings, just modify them to include being around people.

nice point finesse. I can't stand the party girl / loose whore attitude. Its a total turn off for me.

poor guy ha 3 posts and ur ripping him a new ass like he placed the cheese on your sub incorrectly