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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 8:09 pm

Ok so theres this girl with a bangin body.. double D's and great personality.. heres our text conversation as of 5 minutes:

Her: Can you call me when you get off? I want to talk about something.
Me: Sure Whatsup?
Her: I have a question
Me: Yes maam.. i'm not gay ;)
Her: Haha not the question. Do you like me mister?
Me: I do very much so ;)
Her: What do you think of (she types her name) and Skylar G (my name)
Me: Like peas and carrots ;)
Her: I'm serious Skylar..
Me: I'd like to date you but I would want to be completely upfront with you about my expectations.. you're an awesome girl (inserted her name) :)
Her: What are your expectations?

HOW do I word the fact that I want her to be open with me being able to date other girls? I've never proposed this idea to a girl before but I look at this as prime oppurtunity. Ideas/Suggestions?

I was thinking: "Understanding that I enjoy open relationships and want you to be cool with that too"... but I hesitated.
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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 8:44 pm

i don't think it's a good idea to bring that subject if u just met her. If u have gone out with her few times and actually got to know each other a bit better, I think that's the time to tell her. I think it's never good idea to tell any girl about open relationship when you first met her.
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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 8:51 pm

I've already banged her and stacked her orgasms like crazy.. she's hooked for sure.. I just didn't know how it would change a mindset of a girl
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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 9:15 pm

lol she just said "So basically you would be seeing other people too?" ughhhhhh this is semi-akward lol.. its either gonna go really well or her saying no.. in the end I think I could lie to her and save the relationship of me fucking her brains out if all else fails.
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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 9:19 pm

So heres the updated convo:

Her: Can you call me when you get off? I want to talk about something.
Me: Sure Whatsup?
Her: I have a question
Me: Yes maam.. i'm not gay ;)
Her: Haha not the question. Do you like me mister?
Me: I do very much so ;)
Her: What do you think of (she types her name) and Skylar G (my name)
Me: Like peas and carrots ;)
Her: I'm serious Skylar..
Me: I'd like to date you but I would want to be completely upfront with you about my expectations.. you're an awesome girl (inserted her name) :)
Her: What are your expectations?
Me: Understanding that I enjoy open relationships/dating until I get more serious and you being cool with that
Her: So basically you would be seeing other people too?
Me: For now

Waiting on reply :D


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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 9:48 pm

So heres the updated convo:

Her: Can you call me when you get off? I want to talk about something.
Me: Sure Whatsup?
Her: I have a question
Me: Yes maam.. i'm not gay ;)
Her: Haha not the question. Do you like me mister?
Me: I do very much so ;)
Her: What do you think of (she types her name) and Skylar G (my name)
Me: Like peas and carrots ;)
Her: I'm serious Skylar..
Me: I'd like to date you but I would want to be completely upfront with you about my expectations.. you're an awesome girl (inserted her name) :)
Her: What are your expectations?
Me: Understanding that I enjoy open relationships/dating until I get more serious and you being cool with that
Her: So basically you would be seeing other people too?
Me: For now
Me: what are your thoughts?
Her: I'm a bit skeptical
Her: Actually I asked you all that because i am in a situation and I really like you. I just don't know what to do
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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 9:50 pm

I just said "I'm not lieing or hiding anything. Everything is on the table and i'm willing to make it work for us.

(giving her hope but still forcing her to agree to the situation) :) i'm so cruel
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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 10:03 pm

hahahaha nice!
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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 10:04 pm

OH SNAP!

Jackpot...


She said "I hear ya. I guess i just wanted to know if after these months of knowing each other if anything would come of it. ya know?"

I said: (thinking i'm losing her) "Something very strong and mysterious draws me towards you.. it would be nice to explore a bit more and find out why and enjoy your company"

She says after a longer than normal delay: "Strong and mysterious eh? Well I will let you make the shots. You drive me crazy sky. Sometimes I think i am just a dumb girl."

ahahahaha right where I want her.
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Postby Guest » Sun Oct 19, 2008 10:07 pm

I said "Let's just role with an open relationship and see how it goes.. We very well may find the answer to our questions dani."

This is money... by agreeing to "find the answers(for what she thinks is love)" she has to agree to an open relationship.

BOOM
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