Chimp with a gun...

[Westfall]

Westfall continues in his never-ending quest to become a slightly less sucky PUA...

So, I went to this restaurant where HBeccentric works. I had sarged her previously, got her #, but could never set up a day two. I had stopped calling.

She was kinda happy I was in her section, but when I threw some C&F at her, I could almost see her attraction rise. This girl is as unique & eccentric as I am. It was one of those damn restaurants that has peanuts. She stopped by and filled up my empty 20 oz Coke Zero bottle with peanuts (WTF?). I teased her about being easily ammused.

She qualified at everything I threw at her, almost as if she was answering in the way she thought I wanted her to.

WF: You're not one of those damn Harry Potter fans are you
HB: I like HP but Im not like a freak about it, it's just fun to read
WF: Because one of my exes was a rabid Harry Potter fan (one of the downsides to dating 14 yr olds. {kidding, obviously}). I ruined the last book for her by finding out the ending, calling her and telling her before she got to read it. (actually true!)
HB: That's horrible.
WF: Yeah I know, I'm a horrible boyfriend. I break up with girls on Valentine's day, blah blah.

When she brought the cheque, it had a personal note and a refernece to harry potter on it.

I asked for her phone number saying I lost it. She didn't have a phone (she actually didn't), but she gave me her email address. I told her to email me. (as a test to see if she would say she doesnt have my @, or ask me to email her first--which she did).

She the complimented my green-sleved shirt, saying it matches my eyes. I stood next to her holding EC, and did a light kino blitz on her.

The whole sarge went great. These techniques are extremely powerful, but I am still trying to refine my aim--I'm like a chimp with a gun. Someimtes I do something great, but most of the time I just shoot myself in the nuts.

Unfortunately, this girl is moving to Austin in a month and is taking on a 2nd job to prepare for the move--so she has very little freetime.

Advice?

[LavianOrlandu]

It seems that if the attraction is there, she'll make the time for day2. You may say that you're a chimp with a gun, but this sounds like a straight-shooter to me. You got the e-mail close didn't you?

And it's not like you need an entire day reserved just for the two of you. You can just say you're headed out to the mall for an hour and that she should come with. Or tea, or lunch, or whatever you choose. Then, when you meet up, you can establish rapport, gain trust and comfort, and then close.

[Scoundrel]

Dude! That was GREAT! I loved it! Keep going, keep learning. You'll be great!

[Naraja]

why could you never set up a day 2?

[Westfall]

I dont have a clue...They just flake all the time.