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2 many girls and burn out

PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 12:05 pm
by jast
I had a lot of success using hot or not to meet girls. Right now I am dating 5 girls and that has turned in to a full time job It is burning me out. I don't even want to work on my game any more. It use to be fun but now I am just burnt out on the whole thing and have to force it. It is starting to really cause a problem in my life and with the girls I am seeing. They are starting to get the feeling that I don’t want to hang out with them a few of them have said something about it.

I know I need to change things up because this is not working. I am thinking of either letting 2 of the girls go or telling them I just don't have time to spend with them more then once every few weeks. Any one else have any advice on how to handle it? I don’t want to get burnt out and lose all the ground I have made in the past few months but I just don’t have the heart for it right now.

PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 12:29 pm
by holyskeleton
its ok. just dont act like it. do whatever is congruent with your inner most feelings. nothing is wrong when you feel like its right.

PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2007 1:05 pm
by TheAwakened
holyskeleton wrote:its ok. just dont act like it. do whatever is congruent with your inner most feelings. nothing is wrong when you feel like its right.


Oh god, we have to put up with that "follow your heart" bullshit here too? :P

Seriously though jast, I've read several times that having 3 girls is pretty much a full time thing, lol. Taking that into consideration, you should probably either turn a couple of them loose or try to turn them into FBs or friends with benefits.

PostPosted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 7:34 am
by MagicBalls
Drop the long-distance relationships with the Russians and the Nigerians who told you that they are "in despair since my husband died I cannot collect money looking for good man to live with or be husband I be a good wife to him good just send letterhead and a check to pay lawyer to get inheritence." They're scams.

PostPosted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 9:03 am
by jast
Drop the long-distance relationships with the Russians and the Nigerians who told you that they are "in despair since my husband died I cannot collect money looking for good man to live with or be husband I be a good wife to him good just send letterhead and a check to pay lawyer to get inheritence." They're scams.


Danm I was about to hit it big time :(

All 5 are form the dfw area, the one that live the longest distance is in Burleson.

Last night I got a call form 1 of the girl witch worked out well.

Her: Can I come over I want to see you
Me: I got to get up early in the morning Bill is off and I have to cover his shift. I am about to go to sleep
Her: Whatever, when can I see you?
Me: I am not sure I have a lot of stuff to do that I have been letting slide I need to get every thing in order maybe in a week or 2.
Her: WHAT A WEEK OR 2 THAT IS BS!!!!!!!
Me: ...... You done throwing a fit now? Look I just don't have the time right now to spend with you. I got other things in my life that need to be taken care of.
Her: FUCK YOU ASS WHOLE go have fun with all you WHORE girl friends I don't need this!!!! (Hangs up the phone)

That could have gone better but hay now I am down to 4 girls. I am going to cut it down to 3. I think I will just wait till the next one throws a bitch fit and cut that one.

PostPosted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 10:01 am
by boyracer
A couple months ago I was juggling 3, and I thought THAT was a full time job! I can't imagine 5!!! :shock:

Yeah, 3 seems to be a pretty good number. And I like your strategy... The next one that complains..... gets the boot!! LOL

PostPosted: Fri Jun 22, 2007 6:39 pm
by LavianOrlandu
LOL, that is hilarious how she just went from "I wanna see you baby" to flipping out on you. Hope your other ones go just as well. :D

PostPosted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 12:20 am
by hooks
make sure you hang on to this one: http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OQREAMH

PostPosted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 12:54 am
by Neuromancer
hooks wrote:make sure you hang on to this one: http://meetme.hotornot.com/r/?emid=OQREAMH


So uncool, I just had dinner.