Girls

[Guest]

How many of you guys actually have "girlfriends"? And by girlfriends I mean a girl you actually go out with at least once a week. For me I enjoy the chase that PUA has to offer but I also like having a #1 girl and maybe a few side projects for variety. I get the impression that some of you are sarge-a-holics! lol :-)

Do you guys develop solid relationships with these girls you game? Or is it more SNL's? Just curious.

I typically keep 3-5 girls on the ho'line, but as I've gotten better gaming so have the girls I've gotten and they tend to not be "fly by night" kind of girls. There is less turnover on my ho'line and there are some quality girls. I guess I'm kind of at a crossroads in figuring out how to handle my situation. I don't know if I want to keep sarging or get a girlfriend. I'm not really the lay'em and leave'm type.

[Guest]

I've had 2 in the last 2 months up here in Chicago, and I have one back in Dallas that I see no more than 2x per month because...well, she's trying to lock me down but she fucks like a warrior and has a fixation with road-head. I like to keep 2 on the ho-line, but even then I have so little time to devote to them. After an 8-hour day, 90-minutes in the gym, 1-hour to cook dinner, 8-hours of sleep...

Why do you need a girlfriend? I have a chick on the hook right now who's chilled out, can meet up whenever, doesn't want to spend tons of cash all the time, and doesn't fuck with me because she knows I don't care.

[Guest]

The sticking point I'm currently working on is developing more involved relationships w/ the ones I game. Currently, I run a very short term game that seem to fizzle out after a few fcloses. The one time I go quite a bit further it all blows up in my face : /

My point being I'm not happy w/ the "hit it and quit it" mode I'm in...but can't seem to get out of it.

There are a lot of people here who, just like Mr. Cheese there, don't see the point in developing a relationship deeper than casual at the present moment. While I totally understand their point of view, I tend to operate completely differently...probably because I was raised primarily by my mother...but that's a tangent I don't feel like typing out!! You get the idea. Some desire a stronger emotional bond than others. That's why we'd like a girlfriend...or just something more than an SNL.

[Guest]

Yeah I like to have one girl who I can take out. You know go do gay shit like dinner, movies, chill around the house. Someone who I actually get to know a little but without the strings.

On the side I try to have several Ho's around for ummm "support".