Girls are FUCKIN CRAZY!!

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December 2006 (although she insists that it was December 2007... Actually I am not so sure myself lol), I met this girl at a community college in Dallas sub area. (I went to UT, but was here during break and taking some classes to get credits)
This was way back then so I didn't know anything about PUA stuff. (since I got into this in April 2008). Believe me, I was a super AFC. I had no fuckin idea what to do with A GIRL. I took a same class with her and got to know her. (warning #1: She smokes so much goodies) I wanted her, but she already had a bf. Tho, she did invite me to hang out at her place and etc, she wasn't interested in me sexually. She was hott. She was more like a guy with a beautiful appearance. Because of her personality, she ended up having more guy friends than girls. Eventually, I had to go back to Austin for school and she stayed here and did her things. I did contact her few times while I was in town but never hung out until.... TONIGHT.

She calls me and wanted to do something tonight. I was working and had to cut convo short. Called after few hours. We talked for long time and I had to jump in to shower. I told her I will call her later. I was doin things and didn't call her for bout 30 minutes. She texts me saying "you better call me tonight." I called her 5 minutes after text, and we decided to meet at a restaurant.

I got there on time. However, she didn't. She was the one who said "make sure u r there on time." LOL For some reason, she thought I was the one who would be late or some shit so she purposely got there late. Whateva.... We ordered the water and had some convo. She has put 15 pounds, but she wasn't that heavy back then, so she still looked fine. All of sudden, she decides that she isn't hungry. WTF? You smoke pot all day and shit. How come you call me out to a restaurant saying "i'm really hungry" and not eat anything? So I just pay 1 dollar to a waiter for not buying anything. At least he served us water. She is very fun but she is fuckin crazy. She tried to pour glass of water into her water bottle and spilling everywhere and shit. We didn't have specific place we wanted to go so we just hopped into my car and drove a bit. She got us lost for a bit. WTF then we ended up on 35 and I knew where we were. (Some crazy activities were going on while we were in a car....nothing sexual. she smoked weed for a while)

There's new mall came in very close to my neighborhood. It has some bars and sports bars. These are kind of upper class bar areas. Pretty classy and shit. I mean the girl i was hanging out with... (we'll call her HBF = hb friend) she told me she got her nipples pierced and shit. She just likes to tease the hell out of guys. She asked me if I would buy her dinner and shit. I said NO. she was very disappointed. haha.

We see a blonde lady who is probably at early 40s. She looked good still tho. She still had the body and skin/face. That's prolly what money does to you. The neighbor I live in is full of riches.... but not me haha. She goes and kissing one of the guy then goes to kiss other guy right next to her. WTF? Even tho she was 40s, she acted like teenage/20s girls. She soon got involved talking to us and some other people at the bar. She talked about how if she didn't have children, she would have sex toy set collection and etc blah blah. AND HER CHILDREN ARE LIKE RIGHT NEXT TO HER!! They brought children to the fuckin bar... I guess it was restaurant/bar, so they could bring 'em... but still. Does she not even care if they hear?

We leave and went back to ihop to eat for real this time. She askes a waiter she knew from th past to bring a coffee. All of sudden she gets pissed and demanded new coffee and all telling me how the waiter spit on her coffee and shit. WTF? Dude you smoked so much weed, you are trippin. She was rude to everyone there and shit. So while we were waiting for our food, I went to that waiter and told him that I'm sorry. He told me it's ok and told me the whole back story of her...

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... When I met her at community college, she had a bf like I told you earlier. They lived together and seemed great. (I knew bout this and knew that she is no longer with him and with another guy at the moment) Turned out that waiter was HBF's ex-bf's best friend. He told me how she was living with him while cheating on him with some 30 yr old guy. (When she started to date this 30 yr old dude, she was only like 19... she is 20 now) He even told me how dirty she did him. She basically messed him up then went onto date 30 yr old guy at the age of 19. She told me how her new bf is so great and all. He gives her all the money she needs and doesn't need to work anymore. She calls him a sugar daddy. Tho she seemed to genuinely like him because she likes to do things for him and surprise him. You gotta understand this tho. She was always hard financially and wasn't really gettin much financial support from her parents. She had to pay for everything and always worked shitload of hours. That is why we never really got to hang out whenever I got back to town. I had no reason to doubt his story coz it seemed to match the time lines and what I knew about her. We got done eating and went outside to talk a bit. She tells me her side of story......



.... that waiter was my ex's best friend. He spit on my coffee because he is so immature. We broke up like 2 yrs ago. That was like forever. I broke up with him and blah blah and tells basically the same story with different opinions. I couldn't realize back then, but now I know it was hard to have a decent conversation with her coz she's so fucked up with marijuana now. I felt bad for the 30 yr old guy for being used for money. However, I felt even worse for HBF because... they've been dating 2 yrs+ and he didn't even ask for engagement or anything. I think even he knows that she is good for sex and all, but not a girl that any guy would want to keep... It wasn't something I expected tonight. I kinda wish I had gone to Addison, but at least we both had a good time... She couldn't have a bad time coz she was high...

There are so many fucked up girls out there... Using guys for money and etc. Wishin they didn't have children and don't want any responsibilities at such an old age like that blonde teacher at a bar. Sayin shit like that in front of her kids.

I don't think I will ever hang out with her again. I do like her as a person and I'm attracted to her physically. However... at her current state, we can't even have decent conversation. It's just stupid. Why is she so stupid? Why is that old teacher woman so irresponsible and stupid?

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you once liked that girl enough to not notice how stupid she chooses to be. I think its cool to notice how youve changed. You've matured to the point that your behaviors in the past now seem stupid. Shows that people can and do change. Some day maybe that girl will change, who knows, but for now you can celebrate the amazing amount that you've grown and changed and molded yourself into who you choose to be.