Hi, my name is Sal...

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...and I am addicted to vagina. No seriously. I always thought that my sex drive was normal and everyone else was like me. I am beginning to think that it is much higher than the majority of the population. I was with a friend who talks about sex quite a bit and he made a comment that no one he knows talks about sex and girls more than I do. A couple of my female friends roll their eyes whenever I talk about sex (or turn a convo sexual) because they tell me that is all I talk about (not usually my sex life, just sex in general). I think it is true I talk about it a lot because sex is funny and interesting but part of it is these girls are very prude. When I see a really hot girl, I get an overpowering impulse to go talk to her or at least get a good look. Even after I have gotten off, I still am thinking about sex and if I see a girl after that my mind turns to "what would see be like in bed?" I am really curious what most girls would look like naked and how they would be in bed, even if they aren't that attractive.

I think you get the point. The high sex drive comes in handy because girls I am trying to pick up can usually sense my sexuality and it probably makes it more likely they will see me as a potential romantic option. Another female friend has told me that when I am out I have this look on my face that is very sexual and hot, so obviously that is a good thing.

I think it has a downside too though. The fact that I love sex so much makes me think I may never be able to settle down. There are so many girls out there and I usually get bored of a given girl within a couple weeks of laying her. Plus I spend a lot of time thinking about girls and picking up girls that I could be using to do other things. Can anyone relate to this?

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I'm the same way.

I'm addicted to sex, with a caveat. Good sex. Mind blowing, freaky shit man. I know that only a very small population of women are into the same things as me so when I find one that is down with my style she tends to stick around for a while.

BUT...

Every girl I see, hot or not. I always think about what they look like naked, what they taste like, how they kiss, what they're like in bed, how far will she go?

This poses a problem for me because I value hot, crazy, freaky sex so much that I will ABSOLUTELY compromise on looks. So I may not pull the hottest girls in the place (mainly because sex with them tends to suck, I guess hot chicks don't feel like they have to try that hard because being hot is enough in their mind) but I will probably pull the girls that I think will be the most sexually compatible with me.

I feel you definitely. I love, love sex and women...guess that explains why I'm here...

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I used to have a very high sex drive and was into the feaky shit too, but my divorce certainly took some of that out of me. God I hope it comes back tho. I don't even surf porn like I used to. Don't go to the strip club as often. I don't even beat off as much any more. Guess I don't spend as much on paper towels and lotion anymore! But me luvs laying up with sum dirty hot women and lots of them.

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hey bull are there any standard type things you say to a girl to qualify her 'freakiness' up front to make sure you're not wasting your time?

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hey bull are there any standard type things you say to a girl to qualify her 'freakiness' up front to make sure you're not wasting your time?
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I can almost guarantee what Bull is about to say...

He is gonna say something like you can just tell. Because the truth is you can just sorta tell if a girl is a freak. Not always but I have gotten pretty good at reading women's freakiness.

I wish I had yall's sex drive. I am 30 now and it is nothing like it used to be. Even just a few years ago it was way higher.

And I am nothing like you guys. I won't look at so-so girls or just any random girl and ponder. I only do this with very attractive girls. You guys definitely have crazy sex drives and one way you always know this is true if you don't mind going home with a "2 oclocker".

Ohh to not be picky...how nice that must be.

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[quote1218733644=Justice]hey bull are there any standard type things you say to a girl to qualify her 'freakiness' up front to make sure you're not wasting your time?[/quote1218733644]

Not really. One of the things I look for though, in the realm of verbal cues, is what they say about themselves regarding sex.

Some women NEVER even bring it up. So, you have to.

Usually women have two responses to sex 1) they say or otherwise imply that they're really GOOD 2) the talk about what they LIKE.

I can assure you that the former group is horrible in the sack. If you have to tell someone how good you are at something this probably means that you are not...all you're doing is validating yourself. I can think of one girl that said she gave the best BJs (all girls say this BTW and it's usually never true) but in this girl's case it was true. If a girl tells me how good she is now, I simply roll my eyes, ask her what she likes or what makes her so good. If she can't back it up with real examples then I generally leave the interaction.

BUT, if they talk about what they like to do. Then you know that she's sexually confident and secure. So much so that she's willing to tell you what she likes even though it's very possible that you may not be into the same thing. This is a great opening to escalate sexually.

Other than that, I can usually just tell. I'm right more often than I'm not. It's hard to verbalize how I can tell, I suppose they just put out this vibe of sexuality.

In my opinion, the single best tale tell sign of a girl's 'freakiness' occurs when you're making out...usually when you're in the car together. I call it Grabbing for Goodies. If she grabs your fuck stick without you pulling it out or grabbing her hand and guiding it or without you making a similar sexual escalation (i.e. fingers in the puss) then you can be pretty sure that she's AT least sexually aggressive. In my experience, the more aggressive women tend to be the more 'freaky' they're willing to be.

Also, you can target certain demographics that give you an idea as to their 'freakiness.' Counter culture chicks are usually the best group...makes sense that sex with them will be different from the norm because they are as well.

A good rule of thumb regarding sex is what I refer to as the Sexual Personality Juxtaposition. Basically, it's the premise that someone's sexual personality tends to be the complete opposite of their day-to-day personality. So, if a girl is aggressive and dominating in day-to-day life she has a tendency to want to be dominated sexually. It's an escape from their real life, which is one of the main reasons people have sex. Obviously this isn't always true...see above with counter culture girls...but it's a pretty good rule of thumb.

I know this is hard to discover during pick up, but girls that have been sexually abused have the potential to be highly 'freaky'. They either clam up and become sexually frigid because the act of sex brings back too many bad memories or they become highly deviant sexually. Generally they try to recreate the abuse during their sexual encounters, usually they try to recreate the abuse in a way that gives them power or control. It's kind of creepy to think that a chick is fucking you but in reality her subconscious is recreating her sexual abuse. SO DON'T!! Also, virtually 100% of strippers, girls in porn, and prostitutes have been sexually abused in the past...keep that in mind when you're running Stripper Game.

One last point and I'll shut up. I read a study once, don't know where, but something like 2/3rds of ALL WOMEN admit to having a rape fantasy. I suspect the number is even higher given the shame associated with admitting such a thing.

In my opinion, every woman can become a 'freak' but society and environment fucks things up along the way. You could argue that a 'freak' is a strong willed person that's willing to go against the grain OR you could argue that they're weak because they give in to temptation and ignore society's mores. I believe the former...

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I can almost guarantee what Bull is about to say...

He is gonna say something like you can just tell. Because the truth is you can just sorta tell if a girl is a freak. Not always but I have gotten pretty good at reading women's freakiness.

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Other than that, I can usually just tell. I'm right more often than I'm not. It's hard to verbalize how I can tell, I suppose they just put out this vibe of sexuality. [/quote1218739023]
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what are you two on the same wavelength? hey have you two ever heard of this thing called the best friends test?...it's really cool...

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I can almost guarantee what Bull is about to say...

He is gonna say something like you can just tell. Because the truth is you can just sorta tell if a girl is a freak. Not always but I have gotten pretty good at reading women's freakiness.

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Other than that, I can usually just tell. I'm right more often than I'm not. It's hard to verbalize how I can tell, I suppose they just put out this vibe of sexuality. [/quote1218739023]
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what are you two on the same wavelength? hey have you two ever heard of this thing called the best friends test?...it's really cool...
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Hahha...no just from talking to BR I know we share a similar taste in women and freakiness. Of course I am way less freaky then that freaky bastard...but we do tend to go for the same type of girls. So naturally we have a 6th sense in regards to this since it is something we like in girls. Afterall who wants a dead fuck.

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[quote=Bull Run]2) the talk about what they LIKE. BUT, if they talk about what they like to do. Then you know that she's sexually confident and secure. So much so that she's willing to tell you what she likes even though it's very possible that you may not be into the same thing. This is a great opening to escalate sexually.
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I've also noticed that the freaks tend to be very "open" about their lives. Using what we have just discussed it isn't hard to see who the freaks are on this forum! I think it validates our observations.

Had this firecracker on a first date a few weeks ago and we got on the topic of sex. She knew I liked strippers and she tells me how she thinks she is a little "bi" and wants to go to the flop bar with me next time. Then we tell each other about 3-some's we've had. I told her a story about how I used my penis to mix some drinks for some girls one time!(yeah ask me about it, that trick is $$$$, guaranteed 3sum)Next I'm hearing about how the power goes out everytime her mom plugs in her BIG TEN INCHER! That removed all doubt, this girl was a FREAK. Last thing she says is "I can't believe I'm telling you all of this"! Guess I used some pua skills to build some comfort!

Now I want to know how I can see through a girls panties and know if she has big juicy lips. Because those freak'n turn me on dammit.

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[quote1218746680=playercool]Hahha...no just from talking to BR I know we share a similar taste in women and freakiness. Of course I am way less freaky then that freaky bastard...but we do tend to go for the same type of girls. So naturally we have a 6th sense in regards to this since it is something we like in girls. Afterall who wants a dead fuck.
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Everything PC said in that post is spot on the MONEY!!!