Open Sets

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Definition:
This does not refer to "opening" sets as a verb but rather an adjective to describe the behavior and body language of the girls themselves.

One of the lessons I learned from Captain Jack was that there were groups of girls that were more open than others.

If you practice this a little, you start to get good at it. The girls may not always talk to you but your chances go up significantly.

You can also find this concept in The Reality Method.

[url]http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/how-to-talk-to-complete-strangers-without-anxiety/[/url]

And here

[url]http://realitymethod.com/2007/01/the-approach-vs-opening/[/url]

What does it look like?

Open Sets:
- Looking around the bar at the guys
- Open body language
- Eye contact, maybe brief but its definite
- Subtle people watching
- May play with their hair or do what they do to look sexy

Closed Sets:
- Talking about a subject with their girlfriends.
- Huddled, closed off body language
- Eye contact with the person they're talking to only.
- Bodies face eachother straight on.
- They often look at eachother for approval.

There is a belief that goes along with Open and Closed Sets. The idea is that the open ones want to talk to guys. Possibly take them home and fuck the guys as well.
The closed ones are preoccupied with friends or have hangups about men. They're probably not worth the effort.
Sure you can open a closed set. Its possible.

However, the odds go up when you talk to the more open girls.

You can also look at girls who are more flirty. Personally this is my type of girl. I don't want to talk to or interact with some ice queen or chick on her period.

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