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phone talk
Posted:
Wed Jul 30, 2008 5:51 pmby Guest
i've been having problems talking on the phone... like finding things to talk about and keeping the conversation going... any suggestions?
Posted:
Wed Jul 30, 2008 6:28 pmby Guest
OK to me, the phone is about comfort, so maybe do like a little teasing and then just get good at having normal conversation aiming for wide and shallow rapport and being cool and relaxed. just talk about a lot of stuff, and try to focus more on feelings and sensuality and shit and less on problem solving and details and shit.
Conversation is an art in itself, it would take a really long post to explain how to get good at that. Listening is probably the most important part. But I guess a good place to start is like you say, to have some stuff to talk about.
Girl friendly topics are - (i stole this from juggler who is a good go-to source on conversation) : Travel, Relationships, Art, photography
Live events, such as concerts and theatre Books Fitness, especially running and jogging. Pets.
Posted:
Thu Jul 31, 2008 7:46 amby Guest
Here's a list of top 10 things to talk to a chic about. I stole them off a dating website.
1. Hopes and aspirations
2. Hobbies/interests in general
3. Music
4. Dreams
5. Romance
6. Friends
7. Travel
8. Vacations
9. Movies
10. Entertainment
Sometimes I brainstorm a list of topics and write them down.
Posted:
Thu Jul 31, 2008 8:23 amby Guest
How about this? Don't call her.
Text, then get her in person.
Posted:
Thu Jul 31, 2008 1:35 pmby Guest
well...it's good to have something to talk about when in person
Posted:
Fri Aug 08, 2008 6:22 amby Guest
she didnt have a cell so i couldnt text... and alot of the time... when i text a girl, they end up calling me after i say "whats up"
Posted:
Fri Aug 08, 2008 7:39 amby Guest
avoid it like the plague, unless its a strong part of your game, which it sounds like it's not. anything you talk about is best left to talk about in person.
plus you are a busy man with shit to do,and do not have the time to sit around blowing smoke, however you do make time out of your busy schedule to spend an evening with her....right? ;)
Posted:
Fri Aug 08, 2008 9:50 amby Guest
haha shiit I wish girls called me after I say "what's up!"
Posted:
Wed Aug 13, 2008 5:25 amby Guest
i hate it... alot of times i dont pick up and they end up getting mad at me lol but thanks for the subjects and stuff guys... i'll definately try them topics out and c how it works