Dallas PUA

The problem for me, is, I don't like sex with condoms.

I've had a vasectomy, so I don't have to worry about babies and unwanted pregnancies, which is only making things worse.

I keep thinking I'm gonna end up with an STD, but I keep fucking women without condoms and I keep getting the same results...no STD's. I wonder if these STD's are way over-rated or something.

So, every time I fuck another chick without a condom, the next day I tell myself how stupid this is. I need to get a steady girlfriend and just fuck one chick without a condom and have really good sex with her. But that idea seems even dumber...1.) lose my skillset because I have a girlfriend and a great excuse to not run game on chicks and risk rejection 2.) she'll fuck another guy when she gets bored with me anyway 3.) she'll get boring and I don't want to fuck her anymore...fucking the same chick over and over and over ALWAYS gets boring for me.

So what the fuck am I supposed to do? Keep fucking lots of women without condoms is like playing russisn roulette...eventually I'm gonna get something. Or, I guess I could just use a condom, but then what's the point? Sex is almost NEVER good with a condom. Half the time I can't even cum with a condom.

Maybe I would just bring them back to my house and hold them tight and not fuck them. I don't think I've ever tried this before, but would it work anyway? I mean, shit, that's how I get them back to my bed in the first place...I tell them I'm gonna hold them in my arms all night long "but we are NOT having sex, I'm not that easy"...they always play along but we both know I'm gonna fuck her. She wants it. Wouldn't she be disappointed if I got her home and actually never tried to fuck her? Wouldn't that be something...a celibate player???

Am I the ONLY guy who struggles with this issue, because I never see it discussed on any of the PUA forums?

I've thought about it and thought about it but I never make a decision because I don't think there is a good decision to made on this. So I just keep fucking lots of women without condoms. There's gotta be a better solution.

Yeah if you don't fuck the girl she will think you are a homo!

We are all guilty of going rubberless on occasion. I mean you are in the heat of the moment and are just like fuck it. And I know for damn sure all of us give up the condom with a girl we have known for a while.

I'm gonna have to say though if you are nailing these girls right off the bat without a condom eventually you are going to catch something. There is no doubt you are playing russian roulette possibly with your life. I guarantee a lot of these girls are straight up whores you are nailing. Some of them have prob slept with more guys this year then you have slept with girls. Think about that.

I remember this one time I was nailing this chick. And I mean I just couldn't bust a nut to save my life. The whole time I wanted to take that condom off. I never did take it off thank goodness. I later found out this little slut had been with over 70+ guys. I would have pretty much been a wreck thinking about that if I had taken that condom off. Ohh and to top that off she was only 21. I can't even imagine what some of these older girls numbers are.

Back a few years ago I was talking with my friend. He is a natural and has shagged a ton of girls. I asked him so do these girls ever tell you to put a condom on. He replied with...almost zero do. It is almost always his choice if he wants to wear one or not. This is with random girls he would pick up in the bar and SNL. How Disgusting!!!

Yes, I agree, to wear a condom or not is ENTIRELY the male's choice.

No woman ever insists on it or fights me if/when I decide to go bareback.

I think they see it as a sign of commitment or something, especially if you've fucked her three or four times with a condom and it's coming off for the first time.

Yeah what the hell is it with these girls not demanding that the guy wears a condom? I get that all the time. Freaks me out. They don't care wut u do. I've had a vasectomy as well and I'm not doing it with out a condom unless she's a serious girlfriend. I always like to ask them "condom or not" and they always say "your choice".

Hey I did turn a girl down for sex one time, took some will power but I did it to prove I could to myself. The chic thought something was wrong with her! hahaha

DOH!!!! Me too... I had a vasectomy last year. Thinking I was going to be married forever to one woman. Now, I cannot stand condoms.

I still have one of my mega 36 pack of Trojans I brought from Costco.

Why did I get a Vasectomy???
Well, I pissed off the old lady really really really bad (this was a couple of years ago). I said Fk it and didn't apoloize (which I usually do soften up and say sorry).
So, I went to bed a little later. I walked up to my side of the bed and as I was reaching for the covers, I felt something wet and slimy and edgy. I turned on the light. The old lady had cut all my Costco Mega 36 pack of condoms in half, length wise (still all connected to each other) to show me I wasn't havn't sex that night.

Alpha I feel pretty much the exact same way as you... condoms, can't stand'em. Having just gotten out of an 8 year marriage, I don't think I've used condoms in over 10 years... but I still remember how badly they suck ;) And like you, I have a hard time getting up to the point of orgasm in one... when I was in my early 20s this was just great for the girl because it just meant I went forever... I'm not sure i'm going to have that kind of stamina in my late 30s... we'll see ;)

So far it's not really a problem I've had to worry about because I'm just not getting laid lol

I'm interested to see what others say as well... but yea it's russian roulette... i once dated a chick with herpes in my younger days who said as long as she wasn't having an outbreak I couldn't get it... luckily I didn't... but come to find out that's not true! Your chances are less, but it's still possible. Dodged a bullet there.

Never gotten a girl pregnant pulling out tho... and really i'd much rather drop one in their mouth anyway ;)

lots of diseases that just plain suck even if it's not AIDS... herpes, warts, the gifts that keep on giving.

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I don't remember where I saw it but I remember once seeing the statistic that your chance of getting hiv from a woman who is HIV positive through normal vaginal sex is about 1 in 500. So even if the woman you have sex with is hiv positive as long as you're not doing her anal there's a pretty good chance you wouldn't get it even then.

I'm much more concerned about getting one of the standard but untreatable STDs than I am of hiv. Treatable? Not genital warts. Herpes? Yeah there are medicines but they don't really control it, just lessen the severity and frequency of outbreaks... but you still have them... most girls aren't going to want to sleep with you if they see you've got visible genital warts :) No matter which it's pretty wrong to do it with someone without informing them... and most people are not down with getting with someone who has them... so you might as well kiss your sex life goodbye.

Every time I've done it without a condom, i can count those on 1 hand, I've worried about it after.
It messed with my head about the possibilities. As for me, it's not worth my peace of mind, and the added risk.

The only difference b/w a condom and a coffin is that you come in one and go in the other.