Dallas PUA

26 Lessons Learned From Daytime Pick-up

I recently challenged myself to come up with a list of 26 lessons learned in meeting women during the daytime. It wasn't easy, but I finally finished the list this morning.

I was always told, “Don’t tell ‘em what you did, tell ‘em what you learned.”

Therefore, here are 26 lessons I’ve learned from going out there, for years now and meeting thousands of girls in the process...

1. You become unique
2. It stands out in her eyes when you do it right
3. Confidence is key not boldness
4. The harder the situation, the more she’ll appreciate your effort
5. Women that are walking fast are approachable
6. The first 30 seconds to 3 minutes is the make or break deal
7. If you act like it’s normal then it becomes normal
8. “I have a boyfriend” means “If you’re a loser you will leave me alone”
9. You can pick up a girl in almost any situation
10. Don’t overdress
11. If you’re introduced to her you can get away with trying for rapport with her, in the first couple of minutes
12. You get the lines “It was nice meeting you” when you stall out or start to make things uncomfortable
13. You got to get her to a full stop when she’s moving
14. You got to get her to sit down if she’s stationary
15. You got to get her to walk with you if she’s sitting down
16. Hired guns are paid to be nice
17. Have your logistics planned out
18. Emotional Connection is the heart of day game
19. Bitchiness lasts less than a minute if you know what you’re doing
20. Timing is key
21. It takes an average of 3-25 minutes to get her comfortable enough to go on an instant date with you
22. If you see a guy with a girl it doesn't necessarily mean they are dating
23. It’s not weird to call her up the same day that you got her number
24. Lower energy is appropriate most of the time
25. You can take it slow if you’ll see her again
26. If she’s still talking to you then you’re doing good

Let me ask you this…

What did you learn from going out there to meet women?

If you can’t answer…

You should be out there, RIGHT NOW, finding out the answer to my question
Any comments? Suggestions?

Love & Respect
Oliver T. (Grungey10)
Captivate to Connect

some good pointers, some things i've learned from countless approaches...

* the more you can make it look like small talk, that you're just being friendly, the better. do not escalate until she says something that tells you about her, then say something like, "wow, i was just thinking you weren't my type, but you actually sound fun and adventurous and i like that." you can use the spontaneous/adventurous comment to your benefit later, and can even be a lead in into inviting her to a spontaneous insta-date moments later

* have a plan to escalate. approaching is the easiest part. taking it to the next step is even harder. be thinking of places you can immediately invite her too --- coffee shop, clothing store (for help), etc.

* do not be threatening and/or come across as clingy -- you will go down in flames. this can be accomplished by false time constraint, some negs, and body posture (lean back and talk slow)

* and most importantly... do NOT wait for the perfect moment to approach a woman. it will not happen enough. you only live once. and as said from the original post which i can not validate enough -- the more awkward the situation, the more she will respect you! she knows day game takes balls and women LOVE confidence (duh!!!)

^I highly agree w/ your last tip...just go for it...perfect moments don't happen, just some moments are better to approach but always approach unless she is obviously upset (not sad but mad/upset).

Good Tips btw...