Never had a girl quite like this one..........

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Ok, I met this girl online 2 weeks ago. She's an HB8, dark skin, wild looking hair, definitely hot looking girl but doesn't know it. She's got some serious potential as of right now and I wouldn't mind having that in my life.

We have hitt it off amazingly well, definitely some serious chemistry with tons of emails/text. I said all the right things I guess...lol. The emails and text messages just kept getting naughtier and naughtier, then we ended up having some XXX sex through text messages! We haven't met in person yet, because we have both been out of town. A first date is in the works for this weekend.

I've definetly brought out her inner sex animal. Shes already told me what she wants to do to me and how great I make her feel and how wonderful I am and all the b.s.. I've already heard how she's broken all her rules with me already.

It's like we have the "cart" before the "horse"! I've got a feeling that this girl is going to want to get it on at some point during our first meeting. If I didn't care for her it would be no big deal for me to knock her knickers right off her fine ass! But I think I might actually like this girl.

So does a guy have sex on a first date? And what am I supposed to do when she wants it? Would it be smart to not have sex from a "long term" standpoint?

I had sex on a first date a while back(within a few hours of meeting this HB7) and I just couldn't take her seriously. Now granted we never had the chemistry going like I do with this girl. I don't want to get into that same dilemma with this new girl. I don't want to come across as a puss either.

Update.........I just got a text from my new girl saying "now u know I don't put out on the first date, so you'll have to take me on a second. j/k U know ur gonna get it good!

You guys think this is a setup???? I'd really like to throw this girl up against the wall and have her bare her soul but it just seems to "F" things up when you do. Am I wrong here?

Help a playa out. I got no clue fella's. All I know is I've done a good job creating some awesome attraction, I am physically attracted to her, we see eye to eye on some key issues and I don't want to screw all that up with some hot sex. Maybe I'm all wrong here.????

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Your frame from what it sounds like although sexual has been set in a more than just FB or Friends frame. So even if you fuck her brains out give it a week and she will be asking what are we? What you want to do is set her up for the FClose. Initialte sexually and then break it off and say no we cant be doing this. It will make her chase you. Then as she starts to chase you instead of the other way around, give her the line, "We arent having sex tonight im just gonna tease you" and let it escalate out of control till your smashing her guts. Tip that I got thisweekend from a buddy that I havnt field tested but he has with success. When it comes to clothes, dont take hers off, take your clothes off. Lastly throughout the night say omg you turn me on, look at what your doing to me, then the second time let her touch it through your pants and tell her shes driving you crazy. If you want to be a FB only talk to her when you want to fuck, if you want a relationship just talk to her more than the norm and she will eventually ask the dreaded question stated above. Hope that helps.

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I know you don't want to hear this but I know girls who talk just like that girl. They are the biggest whores in the world.

I know you think it will screw things up if you sleep with this girl on the first date. But wouldn't it bother you more knowing she has done this sort of thing countless times? I would at least want to know I had enough game to also hit it on the first date. Wait a minute. Your a guy and she is a whore. You actually need little game. I wouldn't even leave my place with this girl. Have her meet you at your place. Show her around. Have a glass of wine...never even leave.

Did you know that 70% of the people who meet online sleep with each other on their first date????????

This girl wants to get nailed. If you don't give it to her on the first date she is going to be thinking all sorts of bad stuff. The first thing going through her head is what is wrong with ME... That is how girls are...and girls like this think it even more.

So my advice is just go ahead and nail her. Don't spend a dime. Just stay at your place and hit it a few times. Have fun!

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lol, you guys are hilarious! thanks for the good input.

I have no way of proving it but she told me she'd only been with one guy her entire life whom she was married to for a very long time. I've bumped uglies with several of these 30something single moms who don't get a lot of action and they are the horniest ones I've found yet.

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[quote1211924959=playercool]Did you know that 70% of the people who meet online sleep with each other on their first date????????[/quote1211924959]

I read the same study. Theory goes that you've already built comfort and rapport, both of which make you more attractive to her. Then, when you get together she's pretty much already decided she's going to have sex with you. Basically your job is to just not fuck it up by being a complete tool.

Every chick I've ever met online I fucked the first time we met, assuming of course I actually wanted to nail her. Sometimes pics are deceiving...

I even once met a chick at a bar that I shot an e-mail to on some dating site. She didn't recognize me in person but I knew her, so just for principle I Gamed her, f-closed her, THEN told her that she had previously shot down my Internet advances... Stupid girl!!!

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One Guy...yeah right.

I remember a girl told me that once.

I just got my hot tob done the other day. I told a girl to come over and go hot tubbing. Within a few minutes we were getting naked. She asks so were you planning this all day long. I said yes. She goes yeah I was thinking the same thing.

My point is sex is on her mind. Don't dissapoint.

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[quote1211924959=playercool]Did you know that 70% of the people who meet online sleep with each other on their first date????????[/quote1211924959]
I even once met a chick at a bar that I shot an e-mail to on some dating site. She didn't recognize me in person but I knew her, so just for principle I Gamed her, f-closed her, THEN told her that she had previously shot down my Internet advances... Stupid girl!!!
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I have to know what her response was thats freakin hillarious...i had a similar situation

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you need to motherfucking hit that shit.

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[quote1211924959=playercool]Did you know that 70% of the people who meet online sleep with each other on their first date????????[/quote1211924959]
I even once met a chick at a bar that I shot an e-mail to on some dating site. She didn't recognize me in person but I knew her, so just for principle I Gamed her, f-closed her, THEN told her that she had previously shot down my Internet advances... Stupid girl!!!
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I have to know what her response was thats freakin hillarious...i had a similar situation
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She wasn't too thrilled about it. She asked if the only reason I talked to her in person was because she shot me down on the Net. I told her yes, she told me to leave, I said my job's done anyway.

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lol, you guys are hilarious! thanks for the good input.

I have no way of proving it but she told me she'd only been with one guy her entire life whom she was married to for a very long time. I've bumped uglies with several of these 30something single moms who don't get a lot of action and they are the horniest ones I've found yet.
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no shit on this one. After smashing with these lil cougars I can't get them to stop sending me dirty pics and texts....well i admit i havent tried very hard. : )