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feeling of being pursued??

PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 10:31 pm
by dex
There is a girl Ive seen several times over the past few weeks. Things are going fine, but there is one strange thing. She doesnt ever call me on her own.

My question is have any of yall ever met a girl who doesnt call on her own accord, but waits until you call her?

Im not really sure what to make of this. I feel like its risky though b/c it doesnt put me in any dominant spot. When I do call though, she is always cheerful to talk, and immediately accepts any activity I throw out.

I talked to a girl at work, and she said that she never calls guys at first either. This is b/c she wants to feel like she is being pursued.

What do you all make of this?

PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:33 pm
by Finesse
Control the frame. Right now you aren't in control.

not an expert

PostPosted: Mon Jun 11, 2007 11:33 pm
by MagicBalls
I'm certainly not an expert, but in my experience girls don't like to call. If you feel uncomfortable calling, send her a text message. You might want to read some Texting Game materials. If you got some good IOI's in her responses, then you'll feel more comfortable calling her. You might want to read some material on Phone Game as well. And don't over do it. There are points that indicate your interest. Email has a certain amount of points, texting has more points, calling has even more points, and spending time in person has the most points. You don't want to rack up too many points in one week, because you don't want to get into chase mode, so keep it cool.