Reframe the statement above you . . .

[comet®]

shit check out mystery plow through these shit tests
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PZzjExe0XsA

[H3v3n]

My response: (tried this last night): Is that a good thing or a bad thing?


Shit test: OMG, that girl over there is such a slut!

[kx192]

I know we're having fun and all with reframing, but really the objective shouldn't be to plow through shit tests. The objective is to not get them in the first place. Like the boyfriend objection. If she tells you she has a boyfriend fairly early on, it means you've fucked up somewhere, probably by telegraphing too much interest. It's still salvageable but you're already in damage control.

A girl gives a shit test when she doesn't know if you're an AFC dork or not. If she's wondering it means you're doing something else wrong.

Personally, I think a sarge is going BEST
when I’m getting SHIT TESTED. BUT, it’s not NECESSARY all the time. You may
have had APPROACH INVITATION without even NOTICING IT, and consequently she
won’t shit test.

Anyway, the POINT here is that rather than focusing on just getting a smooth #
close, focus on PROJECTING VALUE onto yourself.

The best way that I know is to PROD HER TO SHIT TEST YOU using INSTANT comments
about the two of you being together and breaking up, because when she starts
shit testing you in response to this, and you pass shit tests, you really
project a LOT of sexual value in a short period of time.

She thinks WHO-IS-THIS-GUY????

And then she tries to GET RAPPORT with you.

[quipster]

Shit test: OMG, that girl over there is such a slut!

Never agree with this as you dont want to label any females as sluts since it will make the ONS or SNL harder.

Reframe: So how do you know her?

Shit test: So you' think you are too good to dance with me?

[Vector]

Personally, I think a sarge is going BEST when I’m getting SHIT TESTED. BUT, it’s not NECESSARY all the time.

I only rarely get shit-tested. Perhaps its a matter of my personal style vs TD's. This is an interesting piece of information I'll have to consider.

[Rhody]

Shit test: OMG, that girl over there is such a slut!

Never agree with this as you dont want to label any females as sluts since it will make the ONS or SNL harder.

Reframe: So how do you know her?

I understand your point. But what if you do it tongue in cheek? How about this:

Reframe: All girls are sluts. Girls are sexual predators.

Then go into the sexual predator routine.

[Welsh_Dragon]

I agree with quipster - I would never use the term slut in any negative context. Most girls like to be sluts in bed (verbally told) - it turns them on. I am assuming you want to connect with her on this level.

The us vs them thing is quite difficult to pull off. You need to target something she really finds objectionable. Needy guys are good or you can roll out the old classic "she's a typical Dallas girl". Usually the girl will frame that one for you!

[Rhody]

Yeah, repeating the word "slut" is a mistake. I see your point. Maybe just answering, "all girls are sexual predators" is a way to get into the routine if you can pull it off. But your suggestion about "typical Dallas girl" is gold.