by Elation » Mon Oct 15, 2007 2:11 pm
My thoughts:
1.Everyone should know by now that the entire community of online KY's loves to over generalize women into boxes and catagories
Personally, from my own experiance (being that almost half of the women I've been with in the past year or so have been sinlge moms) I love them. I appreciate a responsible women and I find the mothering nature very sexy. I think women who have had the wear and tear of taking care of a kid are much cooler and understand what really matters ten times more than some stupid party chick who just thinks about looking hot with her friends in a never ending battle to be "the coolest."
BUT that's not to say that every women isn't different and unique in her own way.
SO TO THE POINT, that he was actually asking about:
1. Respect the fact that she has a kid. Demonstrate your acceptance of the fact that she has offspring. Be non-judgmental
2.Respect her bonderies
3.Respect her very real time constraints. She will tend to be less flaky but have more legitimate reasons for not being able to make the date. Be cool
4. Let her use you as an escape from the reality of her having responsibility. Let her feel like a little girl again. Let you be the tool that allows her to get back to being a little girl with no cares and no responsibilities. Treat her like a woman and appreciate her for who she is apart from her kid.
5.DONT get into the boyfriend role. This shouldn't be too hard unless you start turning all the wrong attraction switches off in her. I usually never have a problem because I'm younger so they aren't looking for that from me to begin with. DONT take to long to bag her. Do her the first or second date if possible. Dont be ashamed of your sexuality and openmindedness on the topic of relationships
-Elation