Lazy is going for the easy pull instead of going after the girl you actually would pick out for yourself all else being equal.
As for stuff being "up to snuff," everyone's desires are different. Everyone has their ideal "type."
For example, I won't talk to a girl who's older than me, that's part of my "type." I like long hair way better than short hair. I won't talk to fatties, and I've nixed asian girls for good.
Sherlocks doesn't completely suck, but it's not the gold mine uptown is for my type of girl.
[QUOTE=Welsh_Dragon;40457]First comes to mind is venue. The hot clubs and hot cities have the hot girls. You get what you pay for, so to speak. But lists mean next to nothing in Dallas anyway so this is an easy barrier to entry place. Sherlocks or Logans is real easy meat. Great training grounds don't get me wrong but apparently not up to your snuff. I gues you would say that's lazy.
Your bud understands though. That is good thinking. I think like that a lot. I use that stuff a lot. Where we diverge is your assumption that means hitting girls of low quality. You don't have to do anything you don't want to :)
I fear a desire to find a girl who is a "challenge" may be akin to fighting nature (might be wrong here not sure what you mean by challenger). She might not be a challenge the week later when she ovulates. Does it make sense to nix her on that? Of course purely hypothetical.
Also I never have been to a bar in Dallas where smashed hot girls are litteraly throwing themselves at any decent guy. MP back in the day was legendary. Not so much these days (last I checked anyway). But I'm more like you Grimm I do like to seek out the quiet sweet type (albit usually via the loud Alpha girl). And you know they are always there. Just pure game that's all I advocate and seek knowledge on. Could move to anywhere in the world should work the same. The human experience.[/QUOTE]
