by Guest » Tue Mar 31, 2009 10:36 am
If you were having a regular conversation with her, would you be asking, "What are you doing?" "What are you feeling?" "What do you want to do?" All day? God, I hope not.
Text game needs to be natural, comfortable, and gently flow in positive directions (more than one direction...because as they say...interactions with women need to be an emotional roller coaster...text game is no different.)
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you're a bit on the goofy side. Try something like this
YOU: What did one monkey say to the other monkey?
HER: WTF? lol WHAT
YOU: Wanna hang?
Goofy, unlikely do raise defenses, and actually asks her to hang out. Simple as that. Sit down and think up some other ways (not all jokes...dont want to turn in to a dancing monkey...pun intended) to keep convo flowing.