Single Mom gaming..??? Any tips?

[Finesse]

Using a fake name is not a contraceptive as it does nothing to prevent pregnancy. I'd say it's more of a financial planning thing

Gold man. Definate gold.

[Vector]

Oh, and I really dig that waiver idea. Like, really, dig. I think I'm gonna work up a draft of something (or see if I can find one online) and post it on here. We could even print the waivers on little cards we keep in our wallets so as not to inconvenience us with the burden of carrying around a bunch of fucking contracts (pun intended! haha) every time we go out.

I always bring my attorney: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MInsLIzLQe8

[Westfall]

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[Rhody]

most want to wallow in a victum mentality & spend time hating men while simaltously being unhappy because they don't have one.

No offense, WestFall, but if you flip this around, this describes some men I know.

[Westfall]

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[NobodyUKnow]

most want to wallow in a victum mentality & spend time hating men while simaltously being unhappy because they don't have one.

There are many people who would rather take the something-for-nothing they can get when they claim to be a victim than stand up and work for themselves.

These people will always see themselves as victims simply because they will never get the free lunch they are in search of. It's self-fulfilling. These people come in all sorts of classes, from victims of racism (I'm not claiming racism doesn't exist; it just doesn't exist at nearly the level that those who would be its victims proclaim) to feminazis.

All I want is complete fairness & equality under the law for all people. Is that too much to ask?Westfall

Unfortunately, yes it is. Men and Women are biologically unequal, so by definition there can be no equality under the law. Any sort of redress is artificial and will be resented by one side or the other as unfair.

Nobody over the age of ten claims the world is fair. Everyone over the age of ten wishes it could be. It's not. It never was. It never will be. Our laws are not intended to provide fairness; they are intended to provide the stability that makes society possible. That's it.

[MagicBalls]

I have a new phrase I tell myself whenever I find myself wishing this were this or that:

"Wishing is blaming."

In 7 Habits, Covey says that reactive people blame others and their circumstances. If you think about it, wishing is along those lines. So instead of being reactive, be proactive and wear the right Jimmy Hat. One that fits, and thick enough that it will whitstand some good rough sex without tearing. Buy 10 different ones and try them out with your favorite porn, if you must. Do not expect the woman to have the condom. You know your dick better.

[Finesse]

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[Ares]

I am doing one right now and it is great. Their first priority will be the kid(s), which leaves you more field time. Just remember, *Leave them better than you found them*.

[Westfall]

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