Sex, seduction and the importance of music & lighting

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The reply I had originally formed in my head would have been funny and I think warranted had you not edited your post. However since you've taken some of my comments a little too personally lately I'll just have three things to say.

First, yes I have here and in one other place on this board made fun of your desire to use expletives combined with your lack of commitment in actually using them. If you want to say fuck, it is perfectly okay. No one here will judge you or think less of you for doing so. You don't have to edit the word... Or you could ignore this comment completely and just do it anyway. Thats your choice.

Second, Aside from that one jab, and the magic comment, none of the above should have been read as hostile. I think what I said is true and posted it because I believe it. Time and experience may either change my mind or prove these things true. Either way is cool with me. But the above post is not a complete disagreement with you anyway. I have a guitar and very much want to learn to play it because I believe it is a DHV and because I believe that I'll enjoy it. At the same time cultural pop phenomenons should not be ignored and neither should games that are enjoyable and softly addictive such as poker, scrabble and monopoly. Guitar Hero is a rare item that happens to fall into both categories. I do not believe for a minute that having this game will make you a pick up god, any more that having a guitar makes me James Hetfield. Far from it. What I do believe is that anything people enjoy, anything that you have fun doing, anything that provides pleasure to you and those around you is ultimately good for you whether that is a silly little Wii game or a vintage Les Paul. And as I stated earlier I believe and am coming to believe more every day that the most important thing, not just in pick up but in life, is to first be comfortable with yourself and then just to have a good time. Having some fun should be your first priority in life, second only to the natural responsibilities of life such as family and children. Go ye forth and have fun... you have my blessing.

Third, stop taking shit personally. Friends naturally tease each other. People make jokes, and zingers and puns on each other all the time. You thought it was funny when I was making fun of Westfall. But when I started poking fun at you, you got defensive. What is the difference? When I showed Westfall what I had posted about him, he laughed. He thought it was funny. Say what you will about the little pervert, he knows how to take a joke. That is a key element in his personality that I think we would all do well to acquire and one that without he would not be near as interesting an individual as he is. But my ultimate point here is this; the opinions, judgments, criticisms and comments of others should not in any way effect what you believe about yourself or how you react to the world around you. If you disagree with something that is fine, articulate your thoughts on the subject so that we can all learn from a difference of opinion. But do not let yourself be subject to overreactions if someone else expresses their belief that is contrary to your own. Review it, analyze it, digest it, determine for yourself if it has any validity and by all means refute it publicly or privately if you believe it to be incorrect but do not take it as a personal insult. You are free to accept it or reject it for your self. That is your choice. "Ne te quaesiveris extra." You do not have to look outside yourself to find that you are a man. You do not have to be reactionary when someone makes a joke about you. You do not have to care whether people approve of your language, your hair, teeth, sexual orientation or body odor. Don't take everything so "fVcking" personally.

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popcorn anyone?

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Take it to PMs.

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so how bout that mood lighting...

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Red light special?

My soon-to-be room mate and I were recently talking about the lighting situation of our new place. Any suggestions would be appreciated (PlayerCool I know you're knowledgeable on this handy man stuff!!!)

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[quote="Twitchy"]http://twitchypua.blogspot.com/2007/06/bachelor-pad.html[/quote]

I'm alittle late to this thread, but Twitchy, great blog post.

This could/should even be best of section sticky for noobs to read.

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[quote="zine"]there's nothing like fucking to techno...[/quote]

dude you for real?
always thought about this...
and what other kinda genres...
me and some girl
(my dumbass mistake for trustin the radio to play 2 good sex songs back to back)
well to get to the point...
that song by snoop and pussycat dolls.... loosen up my buttons or something....
so she said damn this song is soundin good
we got to doin what we got to do to get it done ya dig ;]
and then some random ass old rap song came on after that, and fucked it up... but it was alright, that's what the power button is for, but was still a little different after the song came on and we had to turn it off...
but what other types of music/songs in specific are good?

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The mood stuff is interesting. It motivated me to read it. The arguing is annoying and now I understand why I got off to a bad start :)

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[quote="The Lisenby Effect"][quote:95662ac863="zine"]there's nothing like fucking to techno...[/quote]

but what other types of music/songs in specific are good?[/quote:95662ac863]

low key U2 songs, enigma, pink floyd, couple of Angels and Airwaves tunes....

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housemusique on [url]http://www.flaresound.com[/url]

bitches are powerless.

deephouse is a good genre. [url]www.rootedgroovez.com[/url]

Its slow, sexy, powerfull, and really fucking good.